Black History Month 2023: Under Review.

Wanna do Black History every day? You better act like it. Yes, you reading my blog. And the reason is that we may forget in between. And at the same time, there are those who don’t want to hear the history. It’s not just American History, it’s also WORLD HISTORY. I didn’t say “not American History”. NOT JUST AMERICAN HISTORY! Look at other countries like Canada, the UK, and any other country that has abolished slavery in the past and is slowly sampling the thought of celebrating Black History.

Some celebrate it in February, or in October. Makes no difference! It is a celebration that should not be overlooked, whitewashed, debunked, or any negative response or anything that is covered up. We deserve to hear, see, review, comment and also speak about Black History.

Of course, we can summarize it all the time. But again, we sometimes forget! And sometimes, we don’t want to hear it. But listen, it is something that we CANNOT deny! Nobody can’t deny it. No matter how educated or uneducated. We all must learn why Black History Matters!

Ok, let me count the ways here. What were the highlights of my Black History Month Moments of 2023? What really stood out the most?

1. The Simpsons: The main reason for this was the appearance of Dr. Henry Louis Gates, Jr. You should know he has a show on PBS with famous folks connecting to their past relatives and ancestors. However, if you were paying attention when Carl Carlson was trying to discover his past, there was a mention of Black Cowboys that actually lived. No not the fake ones, but the real ones that held it down.
2. Streaming. I caught myself watching old school sitcoms of Good Times, Family Matters, In The House, 227, and also the reunions of The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air and Martin. By the way, even the movies of Malcolm X and Foxy Brown. Let’s not forget also the specials on Hulu with The 1619 Project, and how Hip Hop came to be into the mainstream on PBS.
3. Local News: From stepping dance moves to my relatives featured about hair and domestic violence organizations being recognized. All black-owned. Even our young people were recognized by the Black Excellence Awards in education.
4. Local Hangouts: America’s Black Holocaust Museum hosted their Black History Month events onsite at the Harley-Davidson Museum and the museum for displays and other objectives.
5. Donations: Have you donated to the Black College Fund? Maybe you need to try.
6. The NAACP Image Awards: Lots of surprises and the event itself that was expected in various examples.
7. And finally on the list not to round out the most: Black Resistance.

See these are a few examples that brought my attention to Black History Month of 2023. But yet, the theme was subjected to Black Resistance. Look at some of the examples that the subject was brought about from civil rights to social change. Even in your own community. Black Resistance is not a catch phase, it’s a way of life each day. And I say that because daily, the more negativity about Black History or Black folks, in general, are there in the news, media, online, and others, don’t forget that there were men and women of color that protested and agitated rights and privileges without any harm or concern. No, I take that back. They did that, and they pulled a big risk in order to maintain the cause. We even have examples in a new way in today’s era. Normally, Black Resistance is not a racist angle. It’s a way to bring attention to awareness and concerns about this country’s problems and dilemmas. In speaking of that: Black History, or the concept of it, is being under attack. Why? Why would ANYONE of any race or any GENDER, or ANYBODY attack Black History Month? What is the problem? Oh, because it’s racist. REALLY?!!! Who are these folks? The same folks who root for your favorite teams, attend church, or even went to college/school with you? Or those who have served, yes I’m going there! Or even those who just blabbered their mouths and assume that everyone who celebrates Black History Month is not on their side. Or even a guy like Florida Governor, Ron DeSantis that watered down AP African American courses, and wants to eliminate DEI-related courses in the Sunshine state. Florida’s governor is acting like the Daughters of the Confederacy wanting to approve courses that are not related to racism or trying to indoctrinate those to be woke. Or get this, a principal in Alabama wanted to alter a Black History Month event to talk about the events and figures from 1970 to the present. This reminds me of a Virtual High School here in Wisconsin canceling an idea of an Online Black History Month Event to have regular recreational activities in 2021. How embarrassing. Not for the student, but for the principal, Constance Quade. Yeah, I’m putting her name in this because this is an example of who pulling the strings in trying to make it difficult for the kids to learn. Oh, this is what her response stated:

“Quade also contended there would be an equity issue if the school allowed for a program about Black History Month while not doing anything special for months that celebrate other ethnicities and communities.”

An equity issue?!!! How is a proposed idea of a Black History Month Online program having an issue of equity?!!! That doesn’t make any sense at all!

All of this reminds me of Roland Martin’s book: White Fear. That’s all it is. It’s White Fear that is making Caucasian folks lose their minds. No matter what brings to light an issue or event, or idea from Black Folks, it’s the assumption of fear that white folks always have to counter. And get this, white folks talk about their past events and figures ALL THE DANG TIME! What’s the problem concerning African-Americans telling their stories? Explain. Don’t worry I’ll wait. Now, I’ll say this, for the Women, Asian Americans, Hispanic Americans, Native…I mean Indigenous Americans, and many others who are not African-American, INCLUDING THE LGBTQIA+ if you think that Black History Month is constantly targeted all because of bigoted hatred, guess what: every other heritage month will be in the crosshairs just because many don’t view them as “American.” You need to prepare to defend your historical heritage, your historical months of lessons, and many others, why? It’s because again due to FEAR! That’s all it is. Look, Black History Month has been celebrated for 97 years and it’s not going anywhere. PERIOD! Many will protest it all they want to, but it’s way too late!

Bottom line: Don’t like it? Well better listen up anyway.

And for the Black Folks, Black Queens, and Kings, for all those who say: #BlackHistory365 or “I’m black every month”, or “Black History every day”, let me get this out of the way as I stated earlier, if we want to do Black History “All Day All The Dang Time”, we better act like it. If we are so consumed with our blackness with Historic Implications like buying a new pair of Jordans, or that new whip with the rims on the side, then we better act like our history matters all the time. If we are those who say the slogans, WITHOUT all the history behind them, we will be lost and forgotten. Don’t blame the media, the corporate office, music, or even the white folks. Blame yourselves! For not getting the education of Black History in the house!

It’s almost like those wearing material with I’m black every month and I don’t need a month or whatever, what is that to prove? NOTHING! When Carter Woodson created the occasion in 1926 after hearing the coal miners who were civil war veterans talking about their stories of the war, nobody recorded it. No, there weren’t any digital recorders back then, but there were no recordings picking up their stories. Until the year 1926 came in, there was a chance to do this for a week with his college classmates annually until his death in 1950. Also several years later, Kent State University 1970 ushered in an idea to start Black History Month from January to February. And six years later, Black History Month in February was ushered in even more than we have today in the continuation of telling our stories and events. The Delany Sisters who lived up to 100 years old had a book called, “Having Our Say”. And yet, this is what we in the Black Community must do every time. No matter which month it is.

I recently made a “Stephen’s Spot Black History Quiz” to challenge anyone to see what effect it might have. Did anyone take the quiz? How much do you know? Hope it wasn’t too hard, lol! If it was hard, then that lies in what my black ancestors had gone through tyranny, oppression, persecution, Jim Crow, Slavery, and many other hard-driven concerns that America at times still scared to talk about. The factor that remains is the truth! Now, if you had not taken the quiz and are willing to try your brain power, you know that cheating is not allowed. You would need to do extra studying! No shortcuts, no lifelines, no Social Media, no googling, not even calling for help! None of that! And above all else, the quiz questions were not handpicked by an educator. All by me and my related questions regarding Milwaukee’s History and some African-American-related American questions to summarize. So again, if we want to do Black History every day, we better act like it! No faking out the history. If many are really serious about it, do any of the following:

1) Support a Black Owned Business.

2) Support Black Owned Media. – In Print, Radio, TV, and Digital! It all matters.

3) Donate to a cause, or a fundraiser for a Black Organization like a Fraternity, Sorority, or even Black Veterans Groups like NABVETS.

4) Visit a Black Church. Support their activities in the community. Men’s outings, Women’s activities, events, etc. Or even donate!

5) Visit and/or support a Museum or even a well-known site in your community that features African-American-related exhibits.

6) Support Black Music locally or nationally. Even black movie-making.

7) Know someone in the Black Community that does their own content online like TikTok, or YouTube? Back it up.

8) Donate to Black College Funds for Higher Education to HBCUs.

9) Buy Black Stocks for ownership! This is a MUST!

10) Encourage employment specifically for Black Men and Women looking for work.

11) Know groups that support Black Boys and Girls overall? For education? Back that up fully.

12) Support Black Employees at non-black-owned companies. Let them know!

13) Buy Black Literature. Even the ones that are declared “banned”.

14) Support or subscribe to black podcasting. No matter the subject or idea. Even if it’s Black Introversion.

15) Watch Black Documentaries or News Coverages of an activist, music formation of Hip Hop, or even someone in your community that has or is doing a lot of work. And be prepared to do a summary of book reports or just review it for interest.

16) Have an appreciation day or party in honor of a black employee or volunteer that has spent countless hours of service.

17) For the black men and women who are no longer here on earth, but died years or months earlier, support and maintain a memorial in their memory. Or even dedicate a building, exhibit, a corridor, an auditorium, fundraiser, tech lab, church item, scholarship or a gym after that person’s honor.

These are just a few examples. But there is a sleuth of ideas that can be very interesting to choose from. Choose wisely!

Finally, for those of us who celebrated Black History Month of 2023, it’s cool to do it. And yes, we can reference it at any time, or any place. That and only that keeps it alive! And also, it needs to be defended due to misinformation, conspiracies, lack of education, etc.

Also, to add again: this year marked 97 years. Next year it will be 98, then 99, and in 2026 let’s get some ideas for #BHM2026 or #BlackHistoryMonth100.

And in between: reference, reference, reference! Don’t whitewash, don’t deny, or overlook! As the LGBT folks would say, “We’re here, get used to it!”

#BLACKHISTORYMONTH4LIFE

#BLACKHISTORYMONTHMATTERS

#STILLBUILTBYBLACKHISTORY

Scratching my head all this time, The Mother’s Day Edition of 2021.

So here we are once again and it’s Mother’s Day 2021. For all the Mothers still alive and teaching plus reading my blogs, Happy Mother’s Day to all of you. I hope that many of you will enjoy your day that is specialized with customized opportunities to be with your families and friends. And to many of us also, from all the round the clock of the Coronavirus with Vaccines, to sampling the VP Kamala Harris, having more little hope of .

However, with all continued mess in our Government, regardless of party and also the upcoming shootings in our cities, reckless driving, folks complaining about colleges, the mix up of Cinco De Mayo, and the usually expressed of navigating Mental Health. Guess what: I’m scratching my head again.

So there are those AGAIN whom have names of “Karens” that are being added to “Beckys” and “Nancys”. Oh, they know right? Like Tuckers?

Do folks still stand six feet apart in lines? If not they need to learn math for real! Education!

Which was better from a year ago: Working from home, or Working at the job on the job?

Which is better: acting like a mother, or being a real mother?

Man…..2021 is already taking folks left and right like 2012. Why the deaths of DMX, Black Rob, Shock G, and Olympia Dukakis?

This needs to be asked AGAIN: why there are those 35 years old and under that don’t want to volunteer?

For the Asian-American Pacific Islander Citizens, it’s their month of heritage. But for those that are cynical, will you be mad at this like Black History Month?

Sen. Tim Scott is acting like a baited sell out. Yeah I said it. You realize that he was prompted by the GOP in that rebuttal versus President Biden’s Speech?

For all those asking and wondering AGAIN, what is the value of being in the group that is Woke and Conscious? Somebody needs answers!

The Month of May is three things: Military Appreciation Month, Mental Health Awareness Month and additionally, Asian American Pacific Islander Heritage Month. You know what it is. Why is it important to recognize all three you asked? READ THE HISTORY!

If Virtual Learning is not that liked or criticized by those who are just now learning it, why complain? And if anyone knows this is me going through UW-Stout. By the date comes on May 13th: 15 years.

Oh, fair question: how many of you have updated your resumes and portfolios?

Again people: I need to ask though, if you are looking for a job in all in your hometown, then all of a sudden you get calls from out of state that the jobs are open in a temporary basis. My question is: why are the LOCAL COMPANIES not calling or contacting the folks about the jobs in the community?! Very corny.

For the Class of 2021: Can we see you graduate?

Should CareerBuilder or Monster have an option to not have a choice of not making their customers choosing Temp Jobs?! That’s right I said it!

Introverts: My fellow Innies, are we still winning?

For those whom miss our Barbershops, Beauty Salons, Nail Techs, and other needy stuff, many of us are Vaccinated. Does that mean we can hang? While being masked up?

How does it feel to turn your homes into makeshift workplaces and dining rooms into makeshift altars for Church?

Now: this is for all the mothers:

For all the New School Mothers – Happy Mother’s Day.

For all the Old School Mothers – Happy Mother’s Day.

For all the Mother’s that had to work and still work all day everyday: Happy Mother’s Day.

For all the mothers whom had to go back to school and get that degree many many many years later, but did it for her kids: Happy Mother’s Day!

For all the mothers that continue to teach the Boys, the Girls, the Men and other Women to be productive citizens in life all the time: Happy Mother’s Day!

For all the Mothers who served this nation in uniform and earned the title of Veteran: Happy Mother’s Day.

For all the mothers that are currently serving this nation in uniform and earning the title of solider, airman, shipmate, coastie, space force member, or marine: Happy Mother’s Day. And Happy Military Appreciation Month!

For all the mothers whom are police officers, firefighters, paramedics, nurses, doctors, engineers, mechanics, business owners, media, stockbrokers, and any other profession that is gender balanced: Happy Mother’s Day.

For all the mothers that are just committed to Unions, Happy Mother’s Day.

For all the Mothers whom are apart of any Sorority that is NOT on the list of Expelled Members, but paying their dues all the time for new members to join: Happy Mother’s Day!

For all the Mothers that guide offices and positions in the workforce, the church, the community, the neighborhoods and others: Happy Mother’s Day!

For all the Single Mothers whom constantly push against the grain but still manage to prove others wrong: Happy Mother’s Day.

For all the Mothers whom are heaven bound, as in gone home to God and had been memorialized, funeralized, had the last rights, had the 21 gun salute and many other final goodbyes: We thank those in their memories to live on continuously!

EXTRA: For all the mothers whom are on the front line during this pandemic, and missing their children and husbands, and missing the free time, family time, and had to Zoom, or FaceTime their folks: yes you get an ultra Happy Mother’s Day!

And for all the mothers whom don’t have children. Yes, not every woman is a mother! Those whom are like mothers, and whom are just there as needed to be called upon. Yes, they too deserve a Mother’s Day also. EVEN THOUGH THEY AREN’T MOTHERS!

And to the mothers that look at my blog all the time or some of the time: yes you too, deserve a Mother’s Day. Even to all the Introverted Mothers and Dark Horse Mothers that keep the peace in times of conflict and telling the truth! And still working.

So to the Momz, Mothers, Mommies, Mami’s, Madres, Mommas, Mother Dears, Big mamas, grannies, aunties, great aunts, Godmothers, Matriarchs, and the New Big Mamas that need transitional ideas to move forward, and many other mothers I can’t even think about: yes this is your Mother’s Day. Enjoy it!

Oh, and PS: Dad’s count too in a sense.

Black History Month 2021: Under Review

The 95th Edition of Black History Month 2021 will be in the Archives. Yes we can start reviewing like usual and not to really put away all the truth. Of course that we’ll summarize the stories, videos, websites, postings, and many other pieces of information no matter what month it is. Of course black people, we are black EVERYDAY. Of course black folks we gotta go #BlackHistory365 in all, but let me say that at times, we don’t fully acknowledge our history as much 365 days a year. SPOILER ALERT! And the reason being because we get energetic for a hot minute, and then we go into valley mode for the rest of the 10 months of the year. Strangely enough, we do reference our history, and yes when March comes, many of the folks will bust out with more stories and fact related to Black History, and had to ask, where was all this energy LAST MONTH?!! Matter of fact, where was this energy since last February? You still have certain white people and other non-black residents who crack stupid racism related content in terms of them saying all the decorum of what wasn’t taught to them. However, there are some that are beginning and continuing to understand the legality of Black History Month. Of the important reasons that there are pieces of history that should be acknowledged and mentioned from the classrooms to the boardrooms! And yet, we still have to remember that there are those in this United States that don’t want to hear about our Black History! We hear about the Founding Fathers of the Country that signed the Declaration of Independence, and crafted the U.S. Constitution. However, the same men who did that: OWNED SLAVES! And also never considered black folks back then “true Americans”. So when certain white people always crack the question, “why it always about race?’ Well to answer, the truth is coming from them, historically! The same folks who say that, are the same ones of fearing that they are losing the country. Well that might be arranged LIKE 2043! And the same folks again kept constantly asking, well what about a White History Month? THEY ALREADY HAVE THEM! All freaking 12 Months of it! Don’t get me started about a so-called American History Month. If we see a Declaration of that, add the year 1619. And us in the black community, we get two. Yes, we know February. But you know that June is coming: As in June 19th. As in Juneteenth Day. The other Independence Day that many miss and the same other Independence Day that a certain former president claimed that he made famous. Um………..No! This is not race baiting, this was already out there.

And black folks: let’s take a lesson from this Black History Month year of 2021 in several examples:

1. This is a highlighted reminder launching pad moment. Every rocket, or shuttle uses a launching pad to blast off. You really can’t claim black history everyday without fundamental FOUNDATION! Same as building a house.
2. The next time when someone who is black and wants to the occasion to be abolished because of his or her political or personal lack of education, they need to be called out.(i.e Austin Chenge.)
3. The next time when someone displays a meme and claims that it’s factual, but it’s deemed false, CHECK THEM! Trust me, for those of us that went to school and reference on how to cite sources, this is what needs to comeback. Yes we want to know the who, what, where, when, why and sometimes how. But if the source of the information is not factual, and it’s from a source that is plastered, put it in the trash! Get away from that stuff! Get away from false rumors and avoid the mess that people support that! They don’t know enough.
4. Keep highlighting the truth! Store it up, use it as backup. Black folks, we got to save the receipts!
5. The Green Bay Packers Coach, Matt Lafleur uses the phrase: “All Gas and No Brakes.” This is what the lessons of Black History Month should sample. Put that in the Red, Black, Green and Yellow. Anytime. Anyplace.

So what was the best things that stood out for me in Black History Month in 2021 that you should be examining more between now and in the future. Well lets review:

For us in Wisconsin, as well as Milwaukee:

1. The Hoan Bridge in Milwaukee was lit in Red, Black and Green on February 1st. Again, Light The Hoan, the organization does the bridge lighting very well and most likely they will do this again for future Black Milwaukee Related activities or events. Also , they recently announced an encore of the same design for the 28th if those may have missed it.
2. The Milwaukee Fire Department Headquarters Downtown will be renamed after the late Alonzo Robinson. For those again, who didn’t know who he was, he was the first African-American Architect in the City of Milwaukee, as well as the State of Wisconsin. And was a Veteran of WWII, plus a lifelong member of the United Methodist Church in which I knew him the most. IN MILWAUKEE!
3. Speaking of the MFD HQ: The name Sharon Purifoy.
4. It took 37 years, but the extension renaming of MLK Jr. Drive is done. So for all the shops that had the slogan of “Who’s on Third”, may have to change to Who’s on King Drive. Uh-oh…..I’m just saying.
5. The Milwaukee Public Library had recently unearthed an article regarding the first African American File Clerk of the name John Hall. Yes, I’ve never heard of him. But many will find out and read about John Hall regardless.
6. The State of Wisconsin and the County of Milwaukee had formally recognized Black History Month as a way to not only celebrate but also handle the meetings of business that they do every day.
7. Guess what? Did you know that Milwaukee had a Special Agent in Charge in the 1970’s and was black? Yep. Research John Glover and the reasons why.
8. If you follow Judge Derek Mosley on Facebook, he has been doing the Black History Month summaries for the last 10 years. He is a Milwaukee Judge that devotes his time and effort to providing his audience the value of his summaries that should be viewed and learned every single time!

Nationally:

Mostly recently, there was an article regarding the Ebony Anglers. They are an all-Black Female group that are in fishing competition. Again: All BLACK!

Minecraft, the game that the kids play now, had a mix with Black Historical Moments.

Kendall Jackson from Indiana becomes the first African-American Female to become an Eagle Scout.

The names and figures of Mary Wilson, Leon Spinks and The Natural Butch Reed were remembered and summarized for their work in music and sports. They passed on.

In the racing game: Brehanna Davis became the first Black Woman to be in a NASCAR Pit Crew. Actually it goes back to 2018, but still it’s Black History in the development.

We all know that NASA Victor Glover is making Black History happen right now in space.

VP Kamala Harris chats with NASA Astronaut Victor Glover

Even also he was interviewed by Al Roker in an interview. Just to add: they are both Fraternity Brothers of Phi Beta Sigma.

Astronaut Victor Glover and Al Roker chats via NASA and NBC News, February 2021

What you didn’t expect but it happened: The Black Church. And the announcement of the rebirth of Ebony and Jet Magazine. Yes, the magazines are back on a digital scale. Not just yet for printing. But let me speak on the Black Church programing that many just now knowing that it has a staple in the black communities and an influence of faith that continues to be a ideal objective.

The Black Church of course has been under a microscope and also has been under scrutiny in dealing with scandals and of course, money. If you watched the Black Church in it’s 2 nights, one of the segments was featuring the Black Lives Matter activists. One of the ministers, Traci Blackmon of the UCC in the documentary was commenting about when she was leading a prayer vigil, and one of the activists said out loud, “THAT’S ENOUGH PRAYING!”. For all those whom are apart of the rallies of the Black Lives Matter Movements and I really need for you to listen what I need to say here. I need to say that when you say to a pastor that he or she needs to stop praying in this ongoing struggle of fairness regarding black folks, it seems that you might have missed the mark. Where was the disrespect in that? Here is what you need to get: All that rallying or marching for black folks of what you’re doing, is really how the Black Church got started. KNOW YOUR HISTORY! Don’t believe me, ask those that know. The Black Church is Black Lives Matter. Without the Black Church, Black Lives Matter wouldn’t have been a phenomenon of organizing. At least the spiritual side of it! So yes while it’s vital that the BLM Movement is lively, and is relatively new for many. Let’s not forget that it was the Black Church paved that way for activism, paved a way for jobs, paved a way for education regarding in the Church’s Basements regarding the HBCU’s. As we used to say back in the late 80’s and 90’s, you better recognize! You never know where your going until you know where you have been! That quote is so old-school, but it’s needed in this era of being woke. Yes this is where that Black Lives Matter needs to check itself. However, this is also about being responsible. The Black Churches knows this very well and SHOULD KNOW FROM HISTORY! So we need to be reminded of that.

Black Owned Businesses that you’ll be flocking like clockwork: They say that everyone needs to support black owned businesses. Well, during Black History Month of 2021 I backed two companies of Black Heritage Apparel and Hush Loudly. Both are Black Owned, Women Owned and they’re online. The Black Heritage Apparel had a Awareness Pin that you can still purchase through the Etsy Website.

Also, Hush Loudly is another company that I mentioned in the last posting that is for the introverted folks. Actually it’s really for the Black Introverts. Yes, there are Black Introverts and I’m one of the few that is out there. The company is based in Chicago and yet they have been in conversation about the value of Men and Women of Color that are Introverted. This is a needed platform. Especially among black families! About 5 years ago, it was revealed to me that I was an introvert. All those times when folks used to say “Why don’t you talk to me?” Or “You’re so quiet” or “You’re Anti-social.” Really?! Well the main truth is my introversion and that from my Childhood to Adulthood couldn’t be changed or easily fixed. So if many in our community can’t understand it, well………it’s their fault. Also the company does have Podcasts of their recent discussions. Google it!

Final analysis:

Let me say in defense that many of the so-called community per se still has a problem with Black History Month. This should be a cake walk. For all those who are so suppressed about why Black History Month still exists. Over the course of the month, we’ve seen a few schools that decided to opt out of the occasion for some stupid reasons of racism (or prefer activities for all students) and this hate of black folks. Let’s be honest, Black History Month for many is a joy. For some it’s a evil, oppressive start because they feel that the white folks are not mentioned in helping the occasion. First of all: it’s BLACK HISTORY MONTH! PERIOD! For those whom are mad as hell, stay mad. Stay mad until many will puke. Yeah I said it!

For 95 years, in between many of the history books that we read since grade school until about college (those of us 30 and up) we had the social studies regarding more of the George Washingtons, the Abraham Lincolns, the Thomas Jeffersons, and many who made up the documents and resolutions of the country. But guess what: THEY WERE SLAVES OWNERS! They also believed that blacks weren’t viewed as human or citizens. You all better know this! It’s a fact. The many times we in the Black Community reminiscence about the horrors of concerns that we discuss. Of course, it’s a concern! It’s a concern that continues in various ways in 2021. Along with that, talks of discrimination, racial oppression, voter redlining, health and wellness, and many other factors that continues to be harbor of pain regarding African-Americans. But yet, there are and were upswings, in which it was a moment. What I’m trying to say AGAIN that an occasion like Black History Month should not be slept on. Don’t get caught slipping! All this talk about having a “White History Month” is a darn waste. Actually, there is a White History Month that lingers all the time! So white folks, why are you mad?!! And for the other non-blacks that had to post on Facebook with comments like “Hispanics are important too.” We know that! So are the other ethnics that have a month of recognition. But like the question: Why are you mad?!

And oh, don’t get me started on an “American History Month”. Acting like Adrienne Curry from 2007, or even yet: Morgan Freeman, Stacey Dash, And now, Austin Chenge. America has to earn an American History Month. But guess what, in order for America to get that: better add in 1619! I’m sorry, does 1619 offend anyone in particular? The same 1619 when the first slaves from Africa came on the boats to Jamestown, Virginia? The very same in which Nikole Hannah-Jones presented in 2019 and ever since then many of our so-called representatives on the GOP side had to dismiss it like a bad habit? Oh it even brought out this 1776 Commission Report that related to very change of our country that many assumed the start. But they actually FAILED! That so-called 1776 Commission Report or project was just another attempt to cop out or to whitewash the American History to continue. That my readers, is a false flag. All it was to further cover up the real concerns that happened in America before the actual truth. In other words, those who wanted to cover it up wanted to be remain the same in the continuation of the Daughters of the Confederacy that orchestrated the deals with educators, to get the approval of the curriculum that was established back in the 1800’s. So many kept asking about where did all that started and why we weren’t notified about this in school? Simply put we didn’t know it, and was under lock and key. All that notion we’ve been going through, is seriously cheating us out of our educational system. Now you know why we have to add more Black History Related lessons to the curriculum? All this white washing is just a massive cop out of negating our true education that should have been taught and summarized ALL THE TIME!

In Wisconsin: the Republican lawmakers were at it again. They recently again not to acknowledge the notion of recognizing Black History Month. It’s the same song and dance in just trying to get certain names on the list that they felt would reflect their interests to learn. Obviously, they were white men in the state and yes they were republicans. This is very time wasting on which that there has to be a validation that African-Americans has to go though a process of approval. That has been an Achilles Heel for a long time since slavery. And it’s almost like it’s falling for the “okie doke” every single time. It’s almost the same thing when you had a white Republican of Scott Allen had to be the one in charge to get the final decision. I need to say this as a resident of Wisconsin as well as a member of the Black Wisconsin Universe to the Black representatives of the Black Caucus of the state:

STOP VALIDATING THIS WHITE APPROVAL! ENOUGH!

When you keep doing this, it further suppresses the objective. What really needs to happen that you need to go at it alone. No more validations from Scott Allen, nor from Robin Vos who is very stupid in own right, and as far Jim Steineke, he didn’t even return a phone call of telling the truth in his remarks. But the bottom line is this: The Black Democrats in my view should have gone with a resolution that certifies the work of Stacey Abrams, who was BORN IN WISCONSIN I should add. Does the Wisconsin GOP Assembly care about that? Nope. Do they care about VP Kamala Harris’ ties to Wisconsin? Although her father worked at the University years ago? What all this is, nothing but White Fear! That’s all this is. And that white fear is yearning very well in the Badger State. Maybe our Republican friends as well as Republican fans need to realize that Blacks have been coming (and going) from Wisconsin since 1725. We’ve been here for a long time. Way before the years of 1776, 1846 and 1848. But came slightly after 1619. Also, what was New Berlin’s problem with Black History Month. And they went so negative in their recent School Board Meeting and asking about, what about the Indian American, or Irish American Months and others. HELLO: THEY ACTUALLY EXIST! New Berlin, you have issues! Like seriously.

Finally as I close the Under Review, let’s not be dismayed. Let us remember that Black History Month will still linger on in the future. There will be times that Black History Month will be challenging and also interesting fun to learn from by everyone no matter the race, creed class, religion, or gender. And also there will be those that will continue to dismiss it because it’s not like the proverbial “White History Month” or White American related topics that everyone should know about by now. Like the Pledge of Allegiance, or God Bless America, or actually trying to give folks to recite Lift Every Voice and Sing. However, it is part of historical moments that everyone should know about and that people can learn everyday. No one is not trying to dismiss the other ethnic months regarding Asian Americans, Hispanic Americans, Polish Americans, Native Americans, Pacific Islander Americans or any other ethnic group in the nation. And the same thing goes for the other countries such as Canada, the UK, the Caribbean, Dominican Republic, and many others that celebrate and observe Black History Month. And the reason I brought this in because Black History is not just American History again: it is also World History. And yes world history involves mostly Black!

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Scratching my head all this time in Black History Month 2021

Oh yes, It’s time. Usually I do this for Christmas and other holidays like before, but yet I have to do this AGAIN; for Black History Month 2021. With all the historical things of nature are taking place, had taken place and will be taking place, it is no question that this historic occasion is still loved and yet hated by those who do and don’t understand it for a reason. However, it is here for a reason. It’s been here for 95 years and yet I hope it does continue for another era of black citizens. We know we have some know it all’s, but here is one thing that I know about history: you think you know one thing, there is always something else. Black History NEVER ENDS! Things are always uncovered even more in this era than in the previous era before us. If I were many of the Black Community that claims we know it all: NOT SO FAST! We’re still learning folks. Relax!

But with that, with all the mess in DC with the Impeachment Trials of Donald Trump, the settling in with the still new Administration, A Black GOP in Michigan wants to end Black History Month and replace it with a so-called American History Month, Kyle Rittenhouse is still being an menace of a distraction, VP Kamala Harris is living her Black History Moments right now, Milwaukee’s Hoan Bridge lights up in Red, Black and Green, folks now just discovering why Black History Month is NOT JUST AMERICAN HISTORY AGAIN, Kente Cloth and attire is still a trend, The Black Church will be documented, and other uses of Black Introversion will be discussed or is being in conversation right now. Oh, Milwaukee is just now knowing about it’s first Black Architect that I knew from a familiar place.

And just like that: I’m scratching my head again……

So black people: Are we still on this? Like everyday, in which we don’t always do? I’m Black Every Month, or #BlackHistory365, or Black History Month begins January 1st – December 31st? And exactly how is that going? No more woke hashtags that don’t motivate!

This negro out of Michigan running for Governor, wants to end Black History Month and to begin a thing called “American History Month” due to his viewpoint of being in his words: ‘It’s offensive, unfair, maybe illegal. Americans from all backgrounds deserve a revered history.” Is he smoking pot? What does he mean it’s offensive, unfair and maybe illegal?! And guess what? He’s from Nigeria! What does he know?!! He is an immigrant that came to this country served in the U.S. Army and is a businessman. Oh, this is the same Black GOP person that backed the insurrection that was in D.C. last month. Seriously, bro?! This negro, or should I say, NEGROPEAN SELLOUT is just acting as a hack to please the GOP fans in the Wolverine state. Mostly white. His name? Austin Chenge. He needs to be put in check! Michigan folks, can you all just not vote for this dude and put him in his place coming in 2022? And if the Lincoln Project is not that busy, get on him! Retain Michele Whitmer! All skinfolk aint kinfolk!

So Milwaukee: how did you like the Hoan Bridge to kick off Black History Month? (See below)

For all the folks on the outside of Milwaukee, that are still asking the same tired question: “There’s Black People in Wisconsin?!! My question is, have you actually researched the history? Let the Wisconsin Black Historical Society educate you these videos. Note these were made in 1987, in the same year that the organization was made.

Black Communities Pt. 1 – Courtesy of the Wisconsin Black Historical Society Museum (1987)

Black Communities Pt. 2 – Courtesy of the Wisconsin Black Historical Society Museum (1987)

(66) Black Communities Part 3- WI Black Historical Society Museum – YouTube

Back in 1984, there was a tussle (in a racial segregated angle) to extend the portion of Old World 3rd Street as MLK Dr. After 37 years, it will be a reality that the street will be extended to Wisconsin Avenue. Now there were and STILL ARE folks who are so mad about the idea because they felt that takes away part of Milwaukee’s Past regarding Old World Third. Does it really take away that so bad? I mean it’ll still be Old World Third, but just rename it as…..I don’t know: Old World Third District? Just asking. Oh, there is still a N. 3rd Street going to the south side.

MASSIVE CALLOUT: With this being Black History Month, we heard yet again that the disparities of young black students who don’t have internet in the homes along with laptops to communicate with their schools. Just to think that long time ago, having a computer was just that fun thing to have in the house. Now, it’s a need! Just like the Internet. For the black parents: can we use this time to really get engaged and educated about the use of Virtual Education and the reasons why with the change of times? And for those of us that used to be in those angles, (either as former distance education students or teachers) we need to be on deck. That includes me! No matter if the classes open up again in the buildings, but still Virtual Learning will still be around. Look at the Colleges and Universities.

They say that Black History Month started with slavery. FALSE! Slavery began earlier around 1619 and ended in 1865, Black History Month goes back to 1926. Who’s the fool now?

Is Judas & The Black Messiah the best movie out for Black History Month right now?

I can hear this now: “Black History Is American History”. Not exactly. If that were the case, then why were many don’t want to hear about our history that is related? You realize that other black folks in the globe celebrate Black History right?

Will Coming 2 America be a hit in March?

I need all of you to play this clip from The Amber Ruffin Show on Peacock. Most recently she talked about the thought of having a White History Month. Press play.

The Amber Ruffin Show – 2021

You still want this? Really?! Be careful what you wish for, because you just might get it! Oh, and Amber Ruffin is so wickedly funny with the truth!

Everybody in Milwaukee (and Wisconsin): Are you actually learning about Black History Month from Judge Derek Mosley? He does work around the knowledge of present and past black figures and events. And look, to the white folks that like to talk about the what about the others, or the human race, or why does it revolve around African-Americans, or in the words of many of you: Why does it have to be about race? Why can’t we have an American Fest?!! SERIOUSLY?!! SO LAUGHABLE! Many of us know that Summerfest is OUR AMERICAN FEST. For the love of our Black Ancestors: Hush up! Most of you sound real dumb right now asking that no matter if its in person or on Social Media. But for the rest that actually sat and listened while being lectured truthfully by us saying all this, keep listening. There is more to come. At least As Goes Wisconsin is learning:

As Goes Wisconsin (@asgoeswisconsin) TikTok | Watch As Goes Wisconsin’s Newest TikTok Videos

Everybody in Milwaukee (and Wisconsin), research about the late Alonzo Robinson. You may recently heard about him, but he was the City’s and State’s First African American Architect. He also had connections to the United Methodist Church in the city in which I attend now, he was a member. And it’s the first Black United Methodist Church established in the city. Yes, Mr. Robinson designed the Milwaukee Fire Department’s Headquarters, but he also designed the McKinley Marina, Pilgrim Rest Baptist Church, and a six level courtroom in the Milwaukee County Courthouse just to name a few. So my question to all of the Milwaukee folks: who knew this? And should young black men and women be geared to Architecture for a career? Think about it while designing YOUR OWN buildings and put some respect on it!

The State of Wisconsin as well as Milwaukee County have held their Black History Month Meetings and Segments. So what was learned?

Wisconsin Black Legislative Caucus: Black History Month Kickoff 2021

Milwaukee County Board Celebrates Black History Month, February 2021.

Long time ago, I asked about Black Introversion. And what it means to be a black introvert in a extroverted environment. Yes I am one. However, has anyone checked out the company called, “Hush Loudly?” It’s black owned that you need to support.

For all the Young Black Men and Women who don’t know who Dionne Warwick is, can you do a thing called GOOGLE? As many of you say, Google is your best friend, yes?

For all the folks whom are so mad about Black History Month, you need to be mad at Dr. Carter G. Woodson, who was the brainchild behind of talking about us. Our stories that many are overlooked and missed. So why the fuss behind the occasion again? I know one reason: It’s different!

Scene from Fight The Good Fight – Family Matters, February 1991

How many are ready to see Joe Biden in Milwaukee? LIVE from the Pabst Theater? Socially Distant?! By the way, it was black folks that SAVED JOE BIDEN!

Were many that surprised that Donald Trump was found not guilty for the Insurrection via the Senate?

Speaking of that, was it a mistake that the GOP made in keeping Moscow Mitch…or the McConnell Effect?!

MASSIVE CALLOUT ALERT: Black Folks, we need to be more careful when it comes to actual information! Chance The Rapper had on his Twitter page about Dr. Valerie Thomas, who worked for NASA. He claimed that she invented 3D. WRONG!!!! She invented the illusion transmitter which is like a component to 3D. 3D or 3D Movies however, was already invented before Dr. Thomas was born! Folks, when stuff like this goes out, and without ANY proof of that, it will get checked. Period. So just like in school: can we please FOR THE LOVE OF OUR PEOPLE in the future, reference REAL SOURCES like professionals? Many of you who do these memes, really need to go back to school! No I’m blaming the classes, I’m blaming YOU for not backing your sources properly! GET IT TOGETHER! It’s embarrassing.

This is the NASA physicist who invented 3D Movies and Television. Her name is Valerie Thomas. pic.twitter.com/Do3qD2Qbxm

— Chance The Rapper (@chancetherapper) February 2, 2021

Twitter message: Incorrect information regarding Dr. Valerie Thomas regarding in Black History Month, 2021

Already, we’ve made it through the first half of Black History Month of 2021 WITH SNOW! But what about the second half? Let’s finish it strong, yo!

Which person in Black History needs their stories told right now?

Which events in Black History that should have been told, right now?

Which groups of Black Men, Women and yes Children that are the Dark Horses that should be known, like a long time ago and just working in the background that nobody knows?

How will the next 95 years be written and filed for Black History Month?

What about the folks of George Floyd, Ahmaud Aubery, Breonna Taylor, and those countless that were killed because of police brutality, and how will this occasion continue to move the movement of Black Lives Matter?

Speaking of that: Still mad at Black Lives Matter? Even for a nomination for the Nobel Peace Prize?

Black women, you know that Gorilla Glue is not a hair spray or hair gel, right? We know Tessica Brown has been embarrassed or ashamed, but she put it out there. And that picture of the story is living forever.

How many Church related folks already didn’t know that the Black Church, paved a way for Social Activism? You non-church folks, and former goers that rant about it so badly should know better! Matter of fact, that’s on the older generation that should have led the lecture that should have been passed to the younger folks, whom many of us knows that we didn’t pick up the ball and ran with it! Know it now?!

What is the real reason why there is a 3% rating regarding the COVID 19 Vaccinations that only targets the Black/Latino Community?!!

And finally to round out this “Scratching my head of Black History Month of 2021”: Look at this photo below.

What you’re looking at is the iconic Daniel Hoan Memorial Bridge in Milwaukee. Now, this bridge is decked out on in the Pan African Colors of the Red, the Black and the Green. Well, maybe not the black because it’s just no colors in the section of the Bridge. However, the Organization, Light The Hoan has been reaching out to the community, ESPECIALLY TO THE BLACK COMMUNITY! This is the the second time that the Organization has done this. The last time they did this, was a month ago during the holiday of Martin Luther King, Jr. And hopefully, they’ll more for the city that connects with all and not the few. My question is and it’s an obvious one. What about Juneteenth Day? And you know its bound to happen! Watch in 4 months. Either in Red, White and Blue or Red, Black, and Green. Why Juneteenth again you asked? It’s the second Independence Day that many really should know on June 19th. It’s like the closer before the 4th. So if I were many, start reading about Juneteenth Day RIGHT NOW! While it’s fresh in your mind. I’ve been told that the best areas to view the bridge, is in two areas:

1. The SailLoft Restaurant Parking Lot on Erie Street that is across the Street when you approach going south east to the area. All free parking! Or you can park along Erie Street towards the Bridge, or on the Private Road that leads near the Summerfest Parking Area. I would suggest as a safety standpoint to park in the Parking Lot. Much easier!
2. There is another spot across the river going west. The area of the Milwaukee County Park’s RiverFront Launch Site which is on East Bruce Street and South Water Street. This is near the Salt Factory in the Harbor Area of the Third Ward. Also there is a mini park area. Use either site to take a picture and it’s best to get there after 5pm. And the best part of the site is clearance. You have the Milwaukee River on your left flowing south to the KK River and they flow east towards the Harbor and Lake Michigan. Do a search on Instagram, or Twitter, or Facebook and use the hashtag that needs no wokeness: #LightTheHoan.
3. Again, Light The Hoan is the organization that does the lighting of the Hoan Bridge. And look to view their work for future light design. They recently did a light tribute to the late great Al Jarreau while his hit song, “Milwaukee” was on Radio Milwaukee, which plays local music. Al Jarreau died this month 4 years ago on February 12th, 2017 and was famous and well known.

Happy Black History Month!

#BLACKHISTORYMONTH4LIFE

#BHM2021

Scratching my head all this time – in 2020

Oh you know I’m about to go in. 2020 was crazy! It had me on point, it had me on rotation, and it had me bugged out. But at the end of me asking these crazy questions we might understand it better. But…since this is the last Scratching my Head all this time of the year, but it’s not the last! So as we countdown to the last ticks of 2020, and we prepare for our virtual social distant Watch Night Services, All Night parties, and family gatherings to usher in transition of 2021, and yes to get our resolutions out of what we want to do in all: you’ve guessed it, I’m scratching my head YET AGAIN!

Alright, who remembers any of my blog posts from 10 years ago like 2010?

You know that 2021 starts the NEW OFFICIAL Roaring 20’s, right?

Did anyone from the Republicans actually paid attention that 45 got beat?

The Voters won November. Am I Right?

I predicted that Tom Barrett will be a 5 time mayor. And I was right. Questions?!!!

What’s up with the Democrats and this inner circular war that is still going?

Which Documentary was best in 2020? “The Last Ride”, or “The Last Dance?”

What will the health industry do to boost up the warnings for the COVID-19?

Word is that MeTV is bringing back Saturday Morning Cartoons in 2021. If that’s the case, then is really needed after all the so-called rumors about them being distractive to young minds after 25 plus years!

So many folks didn’t like the WAP? All because of Megan Thee Stallion and Cardi B expressing the sexually charged ideas as black women rappers! Songs and sex aren’t new. And men, why the hate?

Why was White Supremacy remained a maximum programmed problem? Even if it’s a problem among black people in 2020?

So people thought that Facebook was getting so big. Now it has to be separated. Really?!

Did Snoop Dogg learned his lesson after Gayle King?

The Indians names were quickly dissolving for Washington Football and soon to be – Cleveland. Reminders anyone?

Wrestling fans, I get it. We miss the Undertaker. But after him, who’s next to cheer for?

What will be next for the Green Bay Packers that got into the playoffs and winning the North? Same or different?

You know that again the Milwaukee Bucks want to be for real for a Championship? Since Giannis signed 5 years?

So which folks in Milwaukee, has benefited of riding the Streetcar thus far in its still free 2nd year while in the Pandemic?

Is the Fiserv Forum ready for year three?

What was the best car in 2020?

Did MK11 really played well again this year?

Show of hands: who never gave Joe Biden a chance in the debates nor rallies nor the election?

What were the worst jobs of 2020 that many will NEVER DO AGAIN for another decade or year?

Are you or were you watching Roland Martin Unfiltered?

Was this the third year that many REALLY recognized International Men’s Day in November on Twitter?!

For all of the Becky’s and other white folks that called the police on black folks doing civilized stuff this year and you know you did, where were your conscious minds doing that foolishness in 2020?! Black folks, keep your cell phones on Horizontal and hit the record button! Make them pay!

Proud Boys, really? Who were these guys?

If you smelled like Marijuana all through 2020, and you’re in the store or were in a store, did you remember to wash up before leaving the house? Like seriously! There was alot of that.

What was up with Russia and these Cyberattacks? Like really?

When will be the right time for many to explore NEW YORK for New Year’s Eve?

Will the Wisconsin Badgers win the Rose Bowl the right way?

What about those Packers so far? Can they be actually SuperBowl Ready? Yes, I’m realizing what I’m saying!

The group, NFAC or the No F***ing Around Coalition has been a surprise this year with black men being strapped. Will that continue?

For all those hated Introverts, not understand Introverted people, especially BLACK Introverts, why you picked on them? Like seriously. They are not you! And 2020 was the year that Introverts struck back…..at home!

What will it ACTUALLY take to get Bayonetta 3 on the Switch?!! Matter of fact, what will it take to get House of the Dead Overkill playable on the Switch?

Oh, this needs to be asked, Sniper Elite 4, as well as No More Heroes was good in 2020. Will it be another good game for the Nintendo Switch next year?

Star Trek: Picard was a hit. Who’s ready for Season 2?

Which jobs or careers were or are beneficial for the introverted crowd in Wisconsin in 2020, since many were at home?

Which jobs were good ones in 2020 that were COVID-19 proof?

In 2020, did many benefited using bitcoins or bought Stock?

When the Grads of 2020 had their moment of commencements, did we offer their congrats? Virtually?

Who has or is really learning from Roland Martin’s show online after one year?

What was the worst interview this country has ever seen in 2020?

Bad Boys for Life was that movie. WW84 same in 2020. What else?

Black Church folks, are you ready for the Virtual Watch Night Services?

Was not getting the flu shot that bad in 2020?!

Black folks, why are we still saying the N-Word? Why is that really?!

In 2020: who got promoted?

In 2020: who actually voted? Not just one time during the Presidential election!

In 2020: Did many actually went to the doctor, after praising them with the COVID-19 warnings? This means you too, MEN!

In 2020: Did any of you retained your resolutions? Hearing that the word no comes to mind.

In 2020: Milwaukee, did you missed the State Fair as well as Summerfest because of the CoronaVirus?

In 2020: Have any of you saved up financially for that nest egg?

In 2020: level with me, how many times that many of you DID NOT support your Alumni groups? EVERYBODY MUST BE GUILTY OF THIS.

In 2020: Who did the most work in your community? Don’t say the same people!

In 2020: Who did the least work in your community but never was recognized?

In 2020: Who did no work in the community? They need to be called out.

In 2020: Who was the “Dark Horse” in your family, church, organizations, etc? The ones that you never expected!

In 2020: who has a job lined up for 2021 that will be even MORE SECURE?

In 2020: Who wanted a job lined up that no one wanted but applied anyway?

In 2020: How many churches you prayed to, in order to be the best they can? Be honest.

In 2020 : What influenced you to vote against the Republicans that many despised?

In 2020: Milwaukee, was including Black Veterans at the War Memorial not a bad thing? And the real deal was previously, there was NO MENTION OF THEM!

For all the Masons, Order of Eagles, Shriners, Divine 9, American Legion Family, Elks, VFW and others, based on what I have read so far, regarding young folks joining your groups: what are you going to do about it and what will you do to get new members? For example, DJ Spinderella just joined Sigma Gamma Rho this year. And in her 50’s. Same with Anthony Anderson joining Omega Psi Phi. But what about those still want to get it under the college stat or graduate stat?

Is Tesla the new GM? Or is GM is still GM?

I need to ask also, who will miss Black Lightning? It’s the last season.

With all the retirees retired this year, who is next to go in 2021? (Mostly well known in local media)

If many still did blackface in 2020 which was shameful, can many not do it in 2021?

Who actually “migrated” out of Milwaukee in 2020 that moved to Atlanta or Texas just to get away from the racism, but only to realize that racism is everywhere? Like violence?

If you hated Church folks so much in 2020, why keep talking about it?! Especially those who keep sharing those false memes?!

Should the Army Black Knights team still sell those Tropic Lightning gear to those that had loved ones served in Vietnam?

CALLOUT – This needs to be asked EVERY YEAR: There has been this disdain that College is not for everyone. We have heard that. And also, there has been this talk about apprenticeships are better than college, it’s the job skills, not the education. Let me ask this: can Colleges/Universities and the Apprenticeships can actually come together and talk face to face to discuss actually what is needed to get to the part about the jobs after education? And feed it to the Alumni (especially for those who graduated years ago and still haven’t found the right job) and Community? And stop having this disdain about Colleges aren’t a solution! For real, colleges can be a solution, but not the only solution! Just as the Military is not the only way, trades aren’t the only way. You need a combo package to discuss this ongoing subject!

*And for the record, I have nothing against apprenticeships or for those going for them. I am against the fact that they don’t talk to each other and finding a common ground.

Has Distance Learning or Virtual Classes been respected this year?

If many did this in 2020: Resumes. Did many kill it for job interviews?

Can someone explain again the bad connection between buying Christmas gifts and Tax Time again?

In all of the 1,000 posts so far, what wasn’t mentioned?

In all of the 1,000 posts so far, what must be mentioned from me?

In all of the 1,000 posts what was learned from you?

In all of the 1,000 posts did anyone ever to follow what else I had to say?

Which jobs ruled in 2020? The site jobs or the home jobs?

Which Wisconsin teams surprised many in 2020? Brewers, Packers, Badgers, or Bucks?

Milwaukee had over 100 homicides in 2020. What will it take?

Of all the folks who passed away this year, who was the main person that didn’t receive much recognition?

Of all the folks who were honored this year for their hard work, service work, or even milestone work, who didn’t get any recognition after their hard work?

Anyone lost their job unfairly in 2020 before and during the pandemic?

Who was EMBARRASSED HARSHLY in 2020 that will not go away? And will it take a long time to heal?

When folks in the United Methodist Church talk about the future of Black Churches, how come many pass over it? And what is the main reason why many UMC objectifying the reasons of not including the LGBTQIA Community as being outcasts?!

Which reunions had to be cancelled in 2020? Especially if it’s an milestone. Crazy!

And this is the last question before the ball drops and clocks out for 2020: What will you carry into 2021 that you learned in 2020? And also, what will you NOT take into 2021 that you went through hellfire and brimstone in 2020?

Everything else is remained to be seen.

Now: let’s go party.

Ride on.

Happy New Year!

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Be Thankful: the 2020 Edition that still lingers ALL THE TIME! Even in the Pandemic.

Here are the rules: Everyone knows how this goes yet again. And it’s really simple. No need to link, or google, or even #Hashtag. Today, many around the country and in the household or other areas, we Americans will be celebrating that holiday of food called Thanksgiving. From the now socially distant Parades to the NFL Games, Dog Shows, or other new traditional ideas that will boost the food day. And yes, there will NOT be any going out to the clubs and shaking off the pounds to get loose for Christmas. But staying home for the house parties while maintaining 6 feet virtually. Or just now, folks going shopping. Really?!

And yes, there will be ongoing constant reminders of the horrors that our Native American brothers and sisters will not participate in this Thanksgiving Day due to the killing of their ancestors outside of a church on a Sunday morning many moons ago. Henceforth, The National Day of Mourning.

But this holiday, yes does have the two words of Be Thankful for the things and ideas we already have. So here in its 13th Anniversary tradition, here is another traditional Stephen’s Spot Thanksgiving Blog of “Be Thankful”. Even though we are battling the Coronavirus, the ongoing of systemic racism, avoiding the Proud Boys, 45 WILL BE GONE from the White House soon, and among others: Break out the tablets, Smartphones, PC’s or laptops. Start reading while maintaining quarantine style of staying put!

Before we begin the blog, let us take the time to reflect our thankfulness of this day and our thankfulness despite of the divisions, the struggles, the arguments, the valid points given, the political angles, the issues of holidays, generational values of lessons, religious or non-religous concerns and problems, and most of of all, our personal values and goals that we want to be better and brighter for all to inspire!

If you have a GOOD PAYING job that is good for you and it pays well for you or family, be thankful.

If you don’t have a job and still looking and STILL not quitting by going to the job fairs or making connections, even in the pandemic, be thankful!

If you have good insurance, either health, auto, home, vision, or dental that you haven’t lost, STILL be thankful.

If you have a good car or truck that gets you to work every day, and still runs well with or without repairs, be thankful for that!

If you have a new home, or still fixing up your old home, or investing in a home you grew up in and not selling it to those who want to rent out, but want it for life even more: BE TRULY THANKFUL!

If you STILL have a good physician or you still don’t have one, but still want to get that monkey (and constant NAGGING) off your back, STILL be thankful about improving your health. And STILL trying. Take your time! Especially in the pandemic.

Still wearing the masks, being socially distant? BE THANKFUL!

If you have a cool dentist and he or she is good and professional, be thankful.

Like any year, if you have lost any loved one this year or years past, and still feel down that the space is empty or the chair is empty, and you want to fill it up with a new generation of family members that want to pull ahead, even close friends, we must try to be thankful to carry on. It’s hard, but we must. I still miss my father, and like last year, my Thanksgiving will be different without him.

If you had folks praying for you all year for all the things you’ve been experienced no matter good or bad, be thankful that there are folks that know, and are in your corner.

If you are expecting a raise in 2021 and will be getting it, be thankful!

Do you still love your gifts and talents that are unappreciated? And still, do them all the time? Be thankful!

If you still got your parents and/or relatives as your back up, be thankful that they still care.

If you rediscovered your old talents in this Pandemic, Be Thankful!

If you had a sibling in the freaking hospital more than once, who is being taken care of and heard good news about coming home, and I know this AGAIN: STILL BE THANKFUL!

Got any good neighbors that know you no matter how long? Be thankful.

Met any new neighbors lately? Be thankful.

Moved to a different city or county, or state, or region or another country recently that you feel is best? Be thankful.

Moved back to a city, state, county, country that is best? Be Thankful.

Got a good plan to get that next step in your career, or a different career, and a mindset? Be thankful.

If you had connected with your colleagues or family members via Zoom, WebEx, Microsoft Teams, Facebook Room or any other Video Chat platform while doing virtual classes, meetings, church services and others, and still folks had a hard time with the adjustments, BUT : they are starting to turning around, BE THANKFUL!

For all of my church folks: if you want your Church to succeed despite those want it to fail due to jealousy or no confidence with the pastors, BE THANKFUL that you are willing to fight!

If your birthday or anniversary is coming up or it already happened, be thankful!

If you have been given a side gig, and love it to be paid with that cash money or checks, no matter what it is, and the pandemic be thankful.

Men, did you celebrate International Men’s Day in #Movember, I mean November? Be Thankful!

Got a good pet or know a pet that knows you well? Be thankful.

If you STILL give back to your community, your Alumni, your Church, your Scholarship Committees, your Fraternity, your Sorority, your Unions or other groups that have been treating you good all this time, even in the pandemic, Be Thankful!

If you STILL appreciate the value of your former teachers or coaches, or former principals, of anyone that knew your value of education, be thankful.

If you put in the work to show up at your meetings even if you see the same people time after time, be thankful!

If you can’t wait to eat the meal that gives you life, be thankful you can still eat the grub.

Still avoiding fake news? Be thankful. They suck.

If you read the old blogs that I can’t control the reading, but still want to read what I want to say regardless from my black point of view, be thankful! Not just for me, but for you.

If you STILL got stuff in your house that you want to give away, be thankful. Somebody will take it.

Still fighting Racism, White Supremacy, Sexism, and others? – Be Thankful.

Got a good business handy? And it’s good for you to make that money like Uber or Lyft or It Works? Hey, be thankful!

If you switch your career to a new company in the past year or will go to a new company to come, be thankful!

Own a business? Got your own time schedule? Invested in a product or material that worked? Be thankful.

If you got many reachable sources to give, or to provide, or to share, or to support, and it’s really catching on, you better be thankful!

If you are planning to vote in 2022, please be thankful! VOTE IN ALL ELECTIONS!

If you are looking forward to another holiday weekend of fun, be thankful.

If you are NOT shopping on Black Friday, but willing to spend Black Friday outdoors in the woods or parks, Be Thankful! It’s a release to avoid a violent backlash.

If you are not shopping on Black Friday, but willing to spend your cash at a local business, or on Cyber Monday, be thankful.

If you are donating to your favorite charity on Giving Tuesday, Be thankful!

If you can’t wait to finally deck your halls for Christmas or Hanukkah, or Kwanzaa, AFTER Thanksgiving (some of you did it ahead of time) Be Thankful.

If you criticized 45 for his “horrible so-far job” as President and his tweets, REALLY BE THANKFUL!

If you are breathing right now normally and woke up: be thankful.

If you were removed from a company that had you started in the game, then a rift in Management occurred, but went to another company that is good so far, BE THANKFUL!

If many in the black community have black pride PLUS Melanin Responsibility to uplift our black people without sarcasm and forced stuff, BE THANKFUL!

Now I have to say this: if many have given back to our Veterans or supported our military while on duty, be thankful!

If you are a Veteran or service member of the Armed Forces, that had served or still. serving, BE THANKFUL!

If you are walking tall real good, be thankful.

If you are expecting a really good breakthrough like this year or next month, BE THANKFUL!

If you still condemn any racist act on the internet, social media, at your job, or in the house, your church demoninaton, or in the neighborhood, or any act of disrespect, forced patriotism, and you had to write letters of complaints to a certain company, STILL be always thankful to get your voice heard! Put the pressure on them on not coming back!

If you are upgrading your house to be better, be thankful!

If you got a plan to take a vacation, be thankful.

If you still got your old game systems on a Throwback Thursday and if they still work, be thankful!

If you still listen to your old school joints on your radio, or maybe some new school material, be thankful.

NOTE: For my readers that had to go through hell with school shootings, and still feeling hopeless. I want you all to understand that it’s a hard Thanksgiving Day for you as we know. But in a sense, you should be thankful that you can rebuild. And BE EXTRA THANKFUL that yet, you are still living! And be EXTRA EXTRA EXTRA THANKFUL that a breakthrough is coming for the better!

If you are a conscious-minded person, a defensive-minded person that you know is best, for your own opinions and viewpoints without any harm or hurtful feelings towards humanity, be thankful!

For my Sagittarius readers: guess what? Our season is back! Are we thankful, now? (SAGS RULE!)

And finally: If I missed anything that many have thought about, and it’s good: we all should be and forever so thankful that we must march on. Like they say at the black funerals: It’s already been said. It’s already done.

Happy Thanksgiving!

#BeThankful

Oh wait a minute: I almost forgot. This blog post is not done yet! Here is a Be Thankful Extra!

For all the Medical Workers that are working on this Thanksgiving Day 2020 and had to constantly check the patients 24/7 with their coronavirus statistics, be thankful.

If you have a GOOD PAYING job that is good for you and it pays well for you or family, be thankful.

If you don’t have a job and still looking and STILL not quitting by going to the job fairs or making connections, be thatusankful!

If you have good insurance, either health, auto, home, vision, or dental STILL be thankful.

If you have a good car or truck that gets you to work every day, and still runs well with or without repairs, be thankful.

If you have a new home, or fixing up your old home, or investing in a home you grew up in and not selling it to those who want to rent out, but want it for life even more: BE THANKFUL!

If you FINALLY have a good doctor or you still don’t have one, but still want to get that monkey (and constant NAGGING) off your back, STILL be thankful about improving your health. And STILL trying. Take your time!

Now I need to say this: If you found out that you have a chronic illness like Diabetes, and you had a devastating moment of asking why it happened and didn’t have the words. But also you had conversations and online postings about those who have it already and knows the feelings of the battles, and you learn from them and they can inspire you to be better and get with the program of what they know, and still believe that it’s possible that you control diabetes and not let it get the best of you. In this month of National Diabetes Awareness Month: BE THANKFUL that you have a support system that can back you up. STICK WITH THE PLANS!

If you have a cool dentist and he or she is good and professional, be thankful.

Like any year, if you have lost any loved one this year or years past, and still feel down that the space is empty or the chair is empty, and you want to fill it up with a new generation of family members that want to pull ahead, even close friends, we must try to be thankful to carry on. It’s hard, but we must. I still miss my father, and like last year, my Thanksgiving will be different without him.

If you had folks praying for you all year for all the things you’ve been experienced no matter good or bad, be thankful that there are folks that know, and are in your corner.

If you are expecting a raise in 2020 and will be getting it, be thankful!

Do you still love your gifts and talents that are unappreciated? And still, do them all the time? Be thankful!

If you still got your parents and/or relatives as your back up, be thankful that they still care.

If you had a sibling in the freaking hospital more than once, who is being taken care of and heard good news about coming home, and I know this AGAIN: STILL BE THANKFUL!

Got any good neighbors that know you no matter how long? Be thankful.

Met any new neighbors lately? Be thankful.

Moved to a different city recently that you feel is best? Be thankful.

Moved back to a city that is best? Be Thankful.

Got a good plan to get that next step in your career, or a different career, and a mindset? Be thankful.

For all of my church folks: if you want your Church to succeed despite those want it to fail due to jealousy, BE THANKFUL that you are willing to fight!

If your birthday or anniversary is coming up or it already happened, be thankful!

If you are STILL very introverted and darn proud of it, and not ashamed to tell about it or embrace it, be thankful!

Scratching my head all this time: Before you unwrap your Christmas gifts.

Okay. It seems that the holiest of days upon us. We’re talking about Christmas Day. However, by the time you’re reading this it’s Christmas Eve in the world today. And yes like many others you’re probably out shopping getting your gifts, ready to get them wrapped. Watching “It’s a Wonderful Life” or a movie called “The Night Before” or “Home Alone” or any other holiday movie of your choosing with your with your family and friends. But like anything else even on the holiest night of the year, we still deal with concerns and problems in the world. And also in America. And in our communities. And in our neighborhoods. So as we celebrate Christmas 2019 tomorrow, most of you already right now. Yes it is the happiest holiest days of the year. But then again, I’m scratching my head….

So the woke conscious folks hate on Christmas this badly all this time? What else is new?

Question: why do people get offended with the “X” in Merry Christmas? Many already didn’t know that the X is the UNKNOWN! Go back to your Roman Numerals from History Class! And futhermore, no one really knows when Jesus was born anyway. Let that sink in.

Who really deserves a Christmas holiday? Those who have everything or those who have nothing to share or to comment or to explain to get mad?

Yes we all know that Christmas is not the same for us older folks. But why do the older folks have to spoil the fun for the young to enjoy their first or some 18th or 12th Christmas as a child? Many of you are just bitter! Let them have their fun. For now.

Did Eddie Murphy brought it on SNL?

For us the Introverted, are we holding up our end of the deal with some quiet time in between breaks? We know us!

Okay truth-tellers and woke folks: can you really explain to me exactly what truth lies within Christmas being as a “pagan holiday?” If Christmas is supposed to be a so-called pagan holiday, do you think your birthdays/anniversaries are pagan holidays too? Yeah, follow that! Is Kwanzaa, Hanukkah, or Marcus Garvey Day a Pagan Day? Don’t get me started!

Of all the old School Christmas jams: Which sticks out the most? No matter if it’s soul, R&B, Rock, Jazz, or Hip Hop? You already know!

So, what was the best gift to give for your kids for Christmas of 2019? And for the Adults what was the best tech gadget? Or woman’s gift, for Christmas of 2019 that you may have missed or didn’t know about?

For many of us who are experiencing a “Blue Christmas”, that means that there is someone who used to sitting in the chair or at a table spot that is very empty is no longer with us. So the big question is what will be the ultimate opportunity to not only to try to move forward, but try to build new ideas for new traditions with the Christmas holiday?

Okay this needs to be asked: How was the new Star wars movie? Don’t say nothing here!

For us in the Midwest, we are having a foggy Christmas Eve. And also a mild Christmas Day. Everybody in Milwaukee has a Harley out with a Golf Game?

Back in the day, sitting in front of a TV with the commercials on. Now who remembers the real Classic Christmas commercials that used to get you in the mood for the spirit of the holiday, and also the future of the presents to be opened?

Who’s ready for the TV Yule log on Christmas morning? All day until about 6 p.m.? If not, you still have the Google Fireplace.

I need to know this question. How you going to top Christmas in 2020?

Word on the street, or in the neighborhood, or in the world that one of the cathedrals in France may not have a Christmas Eve Mass for the first time in 200 plus years. That’s like a long streak being broken. Any other Cathedral or Church experienced that?

Next week in 2020, January 1st: can the Badgers ACTUALLY WIN THE ROSE BOWL?!

Milwaukee in years past had great Christmas decoration things. Who wants to see them back?

Has anyone ever got tired of the Hallmark Christmas shows yet?

Oh I see that the other channels have Christmas shows out. Now you know have to realize that other channels like BET or TVONE have their Christmas Specials on lockdown like crazy?

For the Jewish readers, How is your Hanukkah going?

Is it time to do a modern version of the following movies like It’s a Wonderful Life? Even in today’s times of the so-called woke and consciousness of darn near everything?

Here’s a question also and this may kind of hurt: How is because that Churches are not scratching the surface enough of the real meaning of Christmas as much as everyone else?

Bonus question to ask on this Christmas Eve: And I know many of you have probably seen this movie. Who really got scared of FX’s version of A Christmas Carol? That right there, was THE CHRISTMAS CAROL! It was not your Grandpa’s or Grandmother’s Version. It wasn’t the fuzzy warm version like Mickey or Bugs Bunny. The BBC and FX went so DEEP! That was a Dickens!

Does feeling nostalgic at Christmas all day really bringing back those memories? And if so how will it go for the next era?

Okay this needs to be asked to what was the purpose of 45 have to implement the thing called the “Space Force?” Really?

For 2020, I hope the Democrats get a real Christmas present by being hard on 45 for next year. Can they actually make this happen without beating each other up like the royal rumble?

BEFORE YOU VOTE: Have you checked your Voter Stats lately?

Before this year is over, and I know many of us are going to be doing this a lot: What is going to be the best and worst of 2019 that you want to forget, pass, and not to move forward?

I don’t know about you, but when Christmas comes, does anyone’s mind wonders off and forgetting about the day and time? And no, there is no weed or alcohol.

Do people really seriously wake up about 3 in the morning for opening the presents?

Should Black Milwaukee do a story of the history of Christmas in their household traditions?

Optional question: who traditionally goes to church on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day? And then to the house and CHILL?

The Milwaukee Bucks went hard on Christmas Day vs the Knicks last year. Could they do the same vs the Sixers this year?

PACKER BACKERS! We got the NORTH! But we know it’s not enough. What is enough you asked? You already know!

Rumor has it the Christmas garland represents a symbol of a snake going around a tree. Now I need to know this serious question and I know a lot of you on Facebook have probably asked this question or read you some what statement on the question with all those memes: Where is the actual proof of reference? This is really a fault on our Education!

For my Sagittarius folks, did we had a good season that made our Birthdays good? Sling the arrows all the way!

There’s always a War on Christmas. Why?!!!!

More and more people have actually spent money on Christmas day than any other day of the whole year. Why is that?

So the Christianity Today is now against the words of Trum….I mean 45. Where have they been at?!!

Should every holiday be a Christmas Day in it? Easy question to spoil.

Why do people get tired on Christmas Eve anyway? You know it’s good exercise! You know, walking and junk.

And one final question to ask: who still does display Black Santas on the front lawn or in this case having a Black Santa/Mrs. Claus teaming up at the Malls and schools? Oh yeah, there are Black Santa everywhere. Even as displays in the house. Just like the white ones.

So with that: Merry Christmas everybody! Now you may unwrap your gifts.

Scratching my head all this time: The Thanksgiving Edition.

By now, you had the turkey. You had the dressing. You had the cranberry sauce, vegetables, and pie. You’re probably stuffed with all the food. And yes, you probably went to a late night club and got started by shaking down those pounds, carbs and calories. Of course, that’s what Thanksgiving would do to you you fill up and you got to lose weight! Hopefully many of you have had a blessed Thanksgiving, a blessed time with your families and friends and strangers probably came in and see you have something to eat. And hopefully that maybe you’ll do the same thing for the upcoming Christmas season. And of course we have to talk about politics, 45’s crappy stuff, the ongoing problems and concerns about black neighborhoods, churches being so hypocritical, (which partially the good ones can stay afloat) and also your basic everyday road rage and folks driving to crazy and asking the same by the question what is your problem? And just the ad more walls and joys and concerns of holiday employment. Yes if you have not guessed it Christmas is coming. But guess what? I’m scratching my head again.

How thankful are really the things you have already, and willing to go for?

Question for Milwaukee, now we all know that mayor Tom Barrett it’s going to put his seat on the line for the fifth time. But the big question is will he able to retain it with the likes of Lena Taylor and Tony Zielinski. Plus voters that may or may not favor him?

Is the Milwaukee Streetcar really that pointless?! After one year?!

Okay this needs to be asked, which relative really sparked that conversation that you did not want to talk about at the dinner table on Thanksgiving?

You know this is going to happen which came first your football game or Macy’s Parade?

Milwaukee: the Brewers now has a new logo, as a matter of fact: they have brought back the old ball/glove logo that has been slightly enhanced for the ball club’s upcoming 50th season next year. Yes the Brewers are turning 50. Will this next era bring a thing called a Championship?

Already, the 2010s decade is vastly closing real soon, What was your best moment?

Okay this needs to be asked again: which families do and do not use canned cranberry sauce?

For those who may have been “triggered” on Thanksgiving, you probably read about the Indians being murdered after a church service on Sunday morning. And for those of you who probably have never had a chance to re-read the question you might have been triggered all the wrong questions. Did any of us ever had the chance to research the truth?

Which of you Facebook and Instagram users were so scared and worried about the transmissions being almost cancelled on Thanksgiving?

Who was not prepared for the “onslaught” on Black Friday?

For people who drive so stupid in Wisconsin roads, Wisconsin streets, Milwaukee areas, and I know who I’m talking about, when someone is trying to make a turn, or coming out the driveway, coming out of the garage , why do you honk your horn so bad? That right there is going to make you look stupid and irritated. Don’t be surprised if cars come equipped with cameras so they can record your every single driving mode get your license plate and check you. And by the way, that idea is coming for me in 2020 for my cars. Just wait. I’m not playing!

Is Black Friday really worth shopping nowadays?

For the sake of those asking and this is the only question asking why is it that a TV is mentioned on Black Friday the most? As everybody knows.

Right now, the Hallmark channel has it’s Christmas movies playing. And many of us are still wondering why. But you know something, BET, TVOne, and other channels have Christmas movies too. Can you check out those?

For all of my introverted readers, can any of us relate to this?

Attention Black Friday shoppers don’t mean to ask this but, you will be hearing this from your pastor on Sunday. Don’t get triggered because you know it’s the truth. Am I wrong or right?

Is the pressure of the WWE is really building from AEW wrestling?

For all of my UPS, FedEx, USPS, and many other delivery package drivers this holiday season take a look at this:

Now you really have to ask this one question, what kind of mess and crap is this? and the thing is the woman on the video had some crack was on drugs by the way claiming that her car was broken into so many times on outside of a house. Anything is try that turn into racism is really stupid. I hope that no black driver or driver helper this holiday season coming out should not want not and will not go through that type of stupid remarks of racism and many other factors. And this is one of the main reasons why race is still on the deck of the topics of tables in American households, classrooms, churches, the dinner table, the neighborhoods, the malls, the restaurants, and many other places we go and spend our money every single day. They say that the holiday supposed to bring up the good folks in everybody, but I have to remember they can bring out the worst in people too, and this is not about losing folks to death. Even racism place apart around this season especially for those who are trying to do some good deeds by deliver packages to houses or businesses every single day. And don’t assume that the influence of 45 is afoot.

For Small Business Saturday, the day after Black Friday, which is the best small business you go to support every single day?

For Cyber Monday, which online store you support the most everyday? and don’t assume it’s always Amazon.

For Giving Tuesday, which companies or donations you support the most? As in idea: DONATE TO YOUR ALUMNI!

Milwuakee, it was so naked without our former traditional Christmas Parade that lasted for so long. What will it take to get a new tradition like that to stick for another Generation?

Speaking of “the current Generation that doesn’t want to go on” what is up with Milwaukee restauruant Vitucci’s closing up after 85 years?

Now for you Millennials and Generation Z folks: What is up with this #OKBoomer mess? If any generation can go one on one the most, is Generation X.

For my Live Streaming Folks and I know you got this: Christmas is coming and I’m looking for a gift to save money and get the best live streaming device on the market. I’m looking at Amazon Firesticks, Roku, Android TV JetStream devices and that’s it. So I’m asking all of you, which is the best one you think is the best to buy? Drop a comment in the box or on Facebook.

Sometimes football players make bonehead moves. Myles Garrett. And also this Ole Miss Player, Elijah Moore after making a play, made a dog peeing gesture and costed him and the team the game vs Mississippi State. What was the point of that dumb move?

You know the Milwaukee Bucks are RED HOT right now. How far will they go for another playoff run?

So far, the Green Bay Packers had 8 victories and 3 losses. But this last loss vs a different San Francisco Team gave the Green and Yellow a worst L on the record. The last time they played the 49ers: Colin Kaepernick was playing and won 17-3. Yeah Niners, the Pack won that one. But December is coming and the team usually comes out firing the Big Guns the most in the birthday month of Aaron Rodgers. And mine. Will the Packers make a statement and bust out the guns again in the 12th Month?

And so far, the Wisconsin Badgers are undefeated at the Battleground. And they must go for the Axe vs Minnesota. I think the Badgers must use this as a chance to get redemption vs the Golden Gophers after this ugly L in the Mad City last year:

Will they do this? And keep in mind, it’s not the same Badgers team like last year.

In the next 8 months, Milwaukee will be home of the DNC Convention. Is the Brew City/Cream City really ready for full tilt in Democratic Blue?

For you non Milwaukeeans, yes we’re also called Cream City. Not because of cows or milk. It’s really because of the buildings that have a creamy look on them that blend in. Who knows? And you know why the Milwaukee Bucks have “Cream City” on the jerseys?

How about this interview between the Undertaker and Stone Cold Steve Austin? Very interesting to see on the WWE Network!

Is the confidence of Christmas still an all time high? Not weather wise I should say.

Just to add also, TV One is doing at Family Matters Reunion all weekend long. Yes, nothing but Urkel all day and night. Who’s watching?

If the decade of the 2010s were to end today, what would have been the worst and best moment? I’ll also save that next month.

CALLOUT: Black people: why do you still put a pic of White Jesus on your Facebook pages? Knowing the fact you know better that Jesus WAS BLACK! Speaking of “slave mentality” and “being on the plantation”.

Black People: you do realize that there is an African Heritage Study Bible that really details the truth in biblical times?

Uh-oh: there are names being purged from the voting records. You voters better get to your Election Offices to make sure you are straight with your voter statuses! Now will you be ready when the voting year comes?

All this technology stuff and google searches, and you can’t really read certain books?

And the last thing to ask: After all this weekend of Black Fridays in all, and the racism, and the good things to happen yet to come, what will the 12th month bring and to make sure that you stay afloat?

In the meantime: Happy Thanksgiving!

Be Thankful: the 2019 Edition that still lingers EVERYDAY!

Here are the rules: Everyone knows how this goes yet again. And it’s really simple. No need to link or google or even #Hashtag. Today, many around the country and in the household or other areas, we Americans will be celebrating that holiday of food called Thanksgiving. From the Parades to the NFL Games, Dog Shows, or other new traditional ideas that will boost the food day. And yes, there will be us going out to the clubs and shaking off the pounds to get loose for Christmas. Or staying home for the house parties. Or just now, folks going shopping. Really?!

And yes, there will be constant reminders of the horrors that our Native American brothers and sisters will not participate in this Thanksgiving Day due to the killing of their ancestors outside of a church on a Sunday morning many moons ago. Henceforth, The National Day of Mourning. We know this. And our Native brothers/sisters are marking 50 years of that horrible reminder that is constantly missed in our schools. It actually happened.

But this holiday, yes does have the two words of Be Thankful for the things and ideas we already have. So here in its 12th Anniversary tradition, here is another traditional Stephen’s Spot Thanksgiving Blog of “Be Thankful”. Break out the tablets, Smartphones, PC’s or laptops. Start reading!

If you have a GOOD PAYING job that is good for you and it pays well for you or family, be thankful.

If you don’t have a job and still looking and STILL not quitting by going to the job fairs or making connections, be thankful!

If you have good insurance, either health, auto, home, vision, or dental STILL be thankful.

If you have a good car or truck that gets you to work every day, and still runs well with or without repairs, be thankful.

If you have a new home, or fixing up your old home, or investing in a home you grew up in and not selling it to those who want to rent out, but want it for life even more: BE THANKFUL!

If you FINALLY have a good doctor or you still don’t have one, but still want to get that monkey (and constant NAGGING) off your back, STILL be thankful about improving your health. And STILL trying. Take your time!

Now I need to say this: If you found out that you have a chronic illness like Diabetes, and you had a devastating moment of asking why it happened and didn’t have the words. But also you had conversations and online postings about those who have it already and knows the feelings of the battles, and you learn from them and they can inspire you to be better and get with the program of what they know, and still believe that it’s possible that you control diabetes and not let it get the best of you. In this month of National Diabetes Awareness Month: BE THANKFUL that you have a support system that can back you up. STICK WITH THE PLANS!

If you have a cool dentist and he or she is good and professional, be thankful.

Like any year, if you have lost any loved one this year or years past, and still feel down that the space is empty or the chair is empty, and you want to fill it up with a new generation of family members that want to pull ahead, even close friends, we must try to be thankful to carry on. It’s hard, but we must. I still miss my father, and like last year, my Thanksgiving will be different without him.

If you had folks praying for you all year for all the things you’ve been experienced no matter good or bad, be thankful that there are folks that know, and are in your corner.

If you are expecting a raise in 2020 and will be getting it, be thankful!

Do you still love your gifts and talents that are unappreciated? And still, do them all the time? Be thankful!

If you still got your parents and/or relatives as your back up, be thankful that they still care.

If you had a sibling in the freaking hospital more than once, who is being taken care of and heard good news about coming home, and I know this AGAIN: STILL BE THANKFUL!

Got any good neighbors that know you no matter how long? Be thankful.

Met any new neighbors lately? Be thankful.

Moved to a different city recently that you feel is best? Be thankful.

Moved back to a city that is best? Be Thankful.

Got a good plan to get that next step in your career, or a different career, and a mindset? Be thankful.

For all of my church folks: if you want your Church to succeed despite those want it to fail due to jealousy, BE THANKFUL that you are willing to fight!

If your birthday or anniversary is coming up or it already happened, be thankful!

If you are STILL very introverted and darn proud of it, and not ashamed to tell about it or embrace it, be thankful!

Single and not in a relationship? Be thankful.

Married with or without kids? Be thankful.

Single and no kids? Be thankful.

Single with kids? Be Thankful.

Divorced? Be thankful.

You still have a church home that you stay and willing to have your kids to grow IN THE CHURCH? Be thankful.

If you have been given a side gig, and love it to be paid with that cash money or checks, no matter what it is, be thankful.

Men, did you celebrate International Men’s Day in #Movember? Be Thankful!

Got a good pet or know a pet that knows you well? Be thankful.

If you STILL give back to your community, your Alumni, your Church, your Scholarship Committees, your Fraternity, your Sorority, your Unions or other groups that have been treating you good all this time, be thankful!

If you STILL appreciate the value of your former teachers or coaches, or former principals, of anyone that knew your value of education, be thankful.

If you put in the work to show up at your meetings even if you see the same people time after time, be thankful!

If you can’t wait to eat the meal that gives you life, be thankful you can still eat the grub.

Still avoiding fake news? Be thankful. They suck.

If you read the old blogs that I can’t control the reading, but still want to read what I want to say regardless from my black point of view, be thankful! Not just for me, but for you.

If you STILL got stuff in your house that you want to give away, be thankful. Somebody will take it.

Still fighting Racism, White Supremacy, Sexism, and others? – Be Thankful.

Got a good business handy? And it’s good for you to make that money like Uber or Lyft or It Works? Hey, be thankful!

If you switch your career to a new company in the past year or will go to a new company to come, be thankful!

Own a business? Got your own time schedule? Invested in a product or material that worked? Be thankful.

If you got many reachable sources to give, or to provide, or to share, or to support, and it’s really catching on, you better be thankful!

If you are planning to vote in 2020, be thankful! Get your ballots ready.

If you are looking forward to another holiday weekend of fun, be thankful.

If you are NOT shopping on Black Friday, but willing to spend Black Friday outdoors in the woods or parks, Be Thankful! It’s a release to avoid a violent backlash.

If you are not shopping on Black Friday, but willing to spend your cash at a local business, or on Cyber Monday, be thankful.

If you are donating to your favorite charity on Giving Tuesday, Be thankful!

If you can’t wait to finally deck your halls for Christmas or Hanukkah, or Kwanzaa, AFTER Thanksgiving (some of you did it ahead of time) Be Thankful.

If you criticized 45 for his “horrible so-far job” as President and his tweets, REALLY BE THANKFUL!

If you are breathing right now normally and woke up: be thankful.

If you were removed from a company that had you started in the game, then a rift in Management occurred, but went to another company that is good so far, BE THANKFUL!

If many in the black community have black pride PLUS Melanin Responsibility to uplift our black people without sarcasm and forced stuff, BE THANKFUL!

Now I have to say this: if many have given back to our Veterans or supported our military while on duty, be thankful!

If you are apart of the American Legion and have been celebrating 100 years of it’s existence, and still give back and inspiring those to join up in the Legion, Auxiliary (even now that Husbands can join) the Sons and Legion Riders, I want say yes, BE THANKFUL!

If you are walking tall real good, be thankful.

If you are expecting a really good breakthrough like this year or next month, BE THANKFUL!

If you still condemn any racist act on the internet, social media, at your job, or in the house, your church demoninaton, or in the neighborhood, or any act of disrespect, forced patriotism, and you had to write letters of complaints to a certain company, STILL be always thankful to get your voice heard! Put the pressure on them on not coming back!

If you are upgrading your house to be better, be thankful!

If you got a plan to take a vacation, be thankful.

If you still got your old game systems on a Throwback Thursday and if they still work, be thankful!

If you still listen to your old school joints on your radio, or maybe some new school material, be thankful.

NOTE: For my readers that had to go through hell with school shootings, and still feeling hopeless. I want you all to understand that it’s a hard Thanksgiving Day for you as we know. But in a sense, you should be thankful that you can rebuild. And BE EXTRA THANKFUL that yet, you are still living! And be EXTRA EXTRA EXTRA THANKFUL that a breakthrough is coming for the better!

If you are a conscious-minded person, a defensive-minded person that you know is best, for your own opinions and viewpoints without any harm or hurtful feelings towards humanity, be thankful!

For my Sagittarius readers: guess what? Our season is back! Are we thankful, now? (SAGS RULE!)

And finally: If I missed anything that many have thought about, and it’s good: we all should be and forever so thankful that we must march on. Like they say at the black funerals: It’s already been said. It’s already done.

Happy Thanksgiving!

#BeThankful

A Blog Letter Once more: To the Veterans of the U.S.

By now, Veterans Day weekend has come and gone, and yet we still appreciate. This Veterans Day marked the 100th Anniversary of the American Legion. That’s 1919 you know. Likewise like many, there are Veterans that are or were not appreciated for their service being skipped over or whatever. Regardless of the dilemmas and the regardless of opinionated thoughts, Veterans you are still appreciated! So in the ongoing honor of this Veterans Day, here is a blog letter for you.

And if you are a Veteran that likes what I write here or the comments on the Stephen’s Spot on WordPress Facebook Page or the Stephen’s Spot Twitter Page, I thank you. It’s only the beginning. Again!

Dear Veterans (and Veteran families) of the United States of America:

It’s me Stephen, a son of a late Vietnam Veteran that served proudly.

Yes, this weekend was and is your weekend. I have 4 words to share for this holiday weekend of yours: Reclaim your Veterans Day! Christmas maybe coming real quick, and Thanksgiving is next to come, but still reclaim your time! I sampled again that from the infamous Congresswoman Maxine Waters who kept constantly saying, “reclaiming my time” over and over again. But seriously, Vets it’s your time again to reclaim the holiday that is meant for you. This is your time to take the heart of this occasion to summarize all of the war stories, the valor, the parades, service stories, lectures, and also experiences that many of you endured in uniform. Those of us that haven’t done the job, we go around that having the opinionated thought about wars and many others. Of course, we have that. But however, without the will of God and you guys, that would not be very possible. Many of you have your say of what you did and yes, your commentary is still and always valid.

But the game doesn’t stop there. Matter of fact, it goes on until the wheels fall off. Even it goes on every day at work, school, church, and leisure. Speaking of the challenges, last year it was an ongoing concern about our so-called president lagging behind when it becomes the statuses of our Veterans. And it’s related to the Department of the Veterans Affairs that many of them are not getting their VA cash due to the fact that it’s an IT issue. This year’s challenge is an everyday challenge in regards to your health, education, job search and most of all, the communities. Why do I say this? every week or month, I hear from Veterans all the time, especially African American Veterans that the issues of Jobs has been a concern. Matter of fact, it’s always been a concern either as a Veteran and as a non-veteran. Homelessness is also a concern, that no one wants to be homeless on any day. In Milwaukee today, there was an idea to build tiny homes that homeless vets can get into to get fed, clothed, and yes to get a new fresh start. The first time I’ve seen the Tiny Homes was in Racine County. But now I’m glad that the Homeless vets here the city can get that chance to reclaim their obligation to get back on their feet again to get going. Speaking of getting back on the feet again: I need to address a concern. Yes, this event is coming up in Milwaukee and it’s an annual tradition, the Milwaukee Veteran’s Day Parade is on November 16th, which is ahead of Thanksgiving and yet it’s in financial trouble. Yep another Milwaukee long traditional parade is in financial trouble due to lack of funding, and further more lack of interest. According to the Milwaukee Independent Website, this question popped up in a gasping thought:

“What does it say about the patriotism of Milwaukee and Waukesha corporations, and the general public interest, to actually honor its hometown veterans and active duty members, when a foreign company has to fund our local Veteran’s Day Parade to keep a half century tradition alive?“

Let me stop you right there: Heard of the company called “TransCanada?” This is the company that is out of CANADA that helped funded the Milwaukee Veterans Day Parade back in 2017, sometime after the Flag Protesting took place across the country. Way after Colin Kaepernick (who was born in Milwaukee) made his stance with the kneeling when the National Anthem was playing in the background. Note to those who may have forgotten, it was against police brutality. Not against the flag, the military, the veterans, or any thing other thing that utilizing the thought of expressing the ideal of patriotism. Also in the article: this was mentionted in regarding those complaining about high ticket prices, and expressing interests but didn’t show up:

“That was the question Milwaukee Independent asked in late October of 2017, during the NFL flag kneeling controversy. It came from the observation that members of the local community were willing buy expensive tickets and travel far to attend an outdoor entertainment event, and in an incidental moment show the measure of their patriotism by standing for a song that barely lasted a minute. However, those same people failed to make any time for a free event in their hometown to actually honor American heroes by simply showing up to wave and smile. “

Wait, so folks who had complained about expensive prices for a ticket per say and not showing up to a free event , kind of shows that there is cheapness in the observation. Does this remind you of something? Read this portion that supports the above statements:

Milwaukee Independent: What factors have you seen affect interest and attendance in Milwaukee’s Veterans Day Parade since you first started attending?

Mary Ann D’Acquisto: That is a very difficult question – we have always struggled with getting people to attend the event. We have tried to get the word out as best we could – press releases, posters, e-mail, Facebook, and such, but it was never enough. The first year we took over the event was 2001 and it was just post 9/11, so everyone was very patriotic and we had a huge crowd. In the 18 years since, we have seen less and less attend every year. I have heard many reasons from people for not attending, like ‘it is too cold, I take my kids to the Christmas parade instead, I don’t have any veterans in my family, I donate money to the veterans,’ and the list goes on. I don’t think people realize how much it means to many of our veterans to have a show of public support. When no one is on the street watching the parade it makes them feel as though they are forgotten.

Milwaukee Independent: Has the elderly condition of World War II veterans altered plans for the 2019 parade, and what will the new format look like?

Mary Ann D’Acquisto: Yes, 2019 is the 75th Anniversary of D-Day and many other major battles in WWII. Consequently the WWII veterans are our Special Guests of Honor for this year’s event. All veterans will be honored and participate, however the WWII vets are our featured guests. In the traditional parade format – veterans are outside for almost 4 hours and the last several years the weather has been less than favorable. That lead us to plan an event that was warmer and drier with more indoor time for our veterans.

The agenda for the day is as follows, this is open to the public: November 16 at the Milwaukee County War Memorial Center. 0900: Displays – military related groups and a special WWII display and performances by some of our favorite parade units. 1030 – Memorial Service. Veterans Day Parade will consist of an Honor Walk and Motorcade, it will not be the traditional 1.5 mile parade route. 1100 – Honor Walk to let our veterans know how much we appreciate them as they parade from the War Memorial over the Mason Street Bridge to Prospect Avenue. 1200 – Veterans Motorcade leaves the War Memorial to take our veterans to a reception at Potawatomi Hotel and Casino. Motorcade Route – leaves Prospect and Mason and heads west down Wisconsin Avenue to 6th Street, south on 6th Street to Canal Street, west on Canal Street to Potawatomi.

The veterans will have their coffee and donuts indoors at the War Memorial and can watch the performances from inside the building. The reception and luncheon for veteran participating in the Honor Walk will be at Potawatomi this year, so that we can have a sit down lunch where there is more room. Also, everyone can watch a documentary we are putting together profiling some of our local WWII veterans.

Milwaukee Independent: For the veterans who participate in the parade each year, what do they enjoy most about the experience?

Mary Ann D’Acquisto: The general consensus is the camaraderie of everyone being together – whether at the breakfast, parade, or luncheon. I do know, however, it has been very disappointing for them to see less and less people coming to the parade to cheer them on.

Ok, let’s stop right there. What you just saw is a portion of the interview that the Milwaukee Independent did with organizer, Mary Ann D’Acquitsto who has held the event in the city for the last 18 years. The organization is overseen by the company called, “Honor Our Military, Inc”. Which has been the nucleus of keeping things in order in the traditional Veterans Day Parade. This parade, or celebration has been going on for nearly 56 years. Which is almost a long time of honoring veterans here in Milwaukee. No matter which war campaign or era. But now in the area, and after this news hitting the fan, guess what? This parade will be on the list like the City of Festivals Parade, Milwaukee Christmas Parade, and The Great Circus Parade all faded out because of lack of money. And to think about it, when the parades was making money in all, guess what? there were more folks in the Milwaukee Area! But overtime, many folks left Milwaukee. The businesses that used to be supporters of the parade, also left Milwaukee. But a few came back. As far as financial support, guess what again, that ties into the businesses. And many also don’t know how the parade process works in terms of money! You got to have sponsors, company backers, a route, the participants, permits, and etc. That’s what it takes. And sadly a lot of folks here in Milwaukee as sad as I hate to say: THEY DON’T KNOW MUCH! They don’t! Oh, when I was reading the comments about this story, specifically from one commenter on Facebook who is “still serving” puts the blame on Tom Barrett in regarding the Streetcar, the DNC Convention and many others that are deemed “liberal”. That’s kind of false. I think the writing was on the wall that had nothing to do with the streetcar nor the convention. Blame it on the lack of knowledge and financial backing that the city encountered in the last 18 years. Blame it on that! There is your reason! Or many might say, oh it’s because Milwaukee is “hyper-segregated”. The only parades left in Milwaukee are the Memorial Day Parade, Juneteenth Day Parade, the Milwaukee LGBT Parade, a Labor Day Parade, and that’s it. No other parades not on the radar. Many of you reading this might be shocked nor surprised. It’s the truth! Matter of fact, continue to read the story and see for yourself.

Now many might say after reading this, “Oh Milwaukee doesn’t care about it’s Veterans. They might support a Trolley or a DNC Convention, or that new Bucks Playhouse called the Fiserv Forum, but won’t lift a finger or pulling the level to acknowledge our Veterans that gave so much to service.” To quote Daniel Bryan: FICKLE! How many here in Milwaukee ACTUALLY acknowledges our Veterans in the City? Even if you do support the Streetcar, Lead Water Prevention talks, Jobs, Black Lives, Health Stats of the Flu, combating racism, Men’s Movember, or the DNC Convention? How many here in Milwaukee ACTUALLY has organizations or local churches that supports and appreciates the valor of Veterans annually? What about everyday? Do you realize that there is void in the city that African-American Veterans aren’t acknowledged enough like the white counterparts that served? Come on now! I know this is Veterans Day respecting the Vets in all, but this stuff is EVERYDAY when many are not organizing. My home church, just recently just celebrated it’s 14th Anniversary in Milwaukee in honoring veterans in the congregation and it’s a BLACK UNITED METHODIST CHURCH! IN MILWAUKEE! Somebody say AMEN! I’m just keeping it real! Veterans, I love y’all but I’m just saying!

Veterans: yes your day and weekend of appreciation will be concluded, but your ongoing ideas and services on this side, will still continue. Like last year, I hinted again that you need to connect with the younger veterans who are currently starting out and settling in after their service. Many of you probably have that idea in mind. Continue to do so! Direct some ideas for them to get started through programs like the American Legion, the VA or any other organization that attracts them to support and get involved.

And one more thing: Young Vets: I need to say this again, you need to respect the OG’s that came before you. It may not be pretty, but like I always suggest that it takes respect to get respect. They are the Military Elders and been in the game longer than you! I’m just saying. As always yes, the non-vets can hear and receive advice from you about your ideas to continue our cause as we move forward. No matter if it’s a job, community time in the church, health, wellness, counseling, or any other idea that is able to do, hey we would welcome and respect it. If I were running a company or a division in a company, yes I would hire veterans in a heartbeat. Why you ask? Since many of you been in places that many of us have seen on TV, why not you? Just asking. No need to go further!

And finally, I realized that the entire month of November is “National Military Veterans and Families Month”. Or National Veterans Month. And it should be. Matter of fact that should have been on Obama’s watch. I know, it was 45’s crazy thing. But however that’s not the case. What is the case that this gives us a chance to have more appreciations, admiration of valor, celebrations and more ways to do Outreach to all of you. Regardless of your service and past duties.

So……To all the Veterans that got the welcome treatment: Never Forget.

To all the Veterans that never got the welcome treatment but got it in small appreciative tokens of appreciations later on: Never Forget.

To all the Veterans who are homeless and still keeping hope alive for the better: Never Forget.

To all the Veterans that were forgotten or being left out: Never Forget.

To all the Veterans that were never acknowledged for their service of any kind, but got acknowledged later on: Never Forget.

To all the WWII Vets: Never Forget.

To all the Korean War Vets: Never Forget.

To the families of WWI: Never Forget.

To the Vietnam Veterans and families: Never Forget.

To the Veterans of Grenada, Beirut, & the Cold War, and Families: Never Forget.

To the Veterans of Operation Desert Shield and Desert Storm and Families: Never Forget.

And yes….to the upcoming Veterans and families of Current war on Terror/Iraqi Freedom/etc. – Never Forget!

Additionally: To all the Women Veterans that blazed new paths and set new tones: Never Forget.

To all the Male Veterans: even though you have long historical experiences in the war in uniform, still never forget!

To all of my African-American Veterans: Historically, African-Americans have been in every conflict of wars since the beginning. Even when fighting for the flag and the country that didn’t want them due to race. These are facts, not alternative opinions altered by anyone political. Even with all this: I say NEVER FORGET!

And to all those of other ethnic Veterans ranging from the Indigenous to the European and all: yes, you too should Never Forget!

Never forget your time, Veterans. You have earned the stripes and flowers. Reclaim your Veterans Day!

Thanks to you of all what you accomplished.

Sincerely,

Stephen