Scratching my head all this time: The Father’s Day 2023 Edition.

This Sunday marks the annual tradition of Father’s Day. All the men who are fathers, act like the women are not at the party. Now surely there may be those who will sneak in or this or in this case that probably may just join their husbands and boyfriends and fathers and uncles and or grandfathers to celebrate their day.

But also this needs to be said: for all the women who told all the men Happy Father’s Day, please don’t. That is just as ridiculous as saying Happy Memorial Day every May. Go figure.

There’s a reason why I’m saying this because not every man does not have kids. Not every man does not look out for kids every single day. Or no man does not want to perpetrate as a father for a real father. Now if those women or if you are one of those women who keeps saying “Happy Father’s Day to all men” then maybe you need to look at this from a different perspective. Let me ask, do the women say Happy Mother’s Day to all the Women who aren’t mothers? Do any organizations or groups have an all-Men’s Day event annually around Father’s Day? If so you probably may need to do that. And not only that, you need to look at another man’s day similar to Father’s Day, and it’s called International Men’s Day, which is in the month of November around the 19th. Check into that and see what you can do in order to celebrate the man in your life every single day other than Father’s Day. And I know for a fact, that most of us in this country are just focused “more” about Father’s Day than International Men’s Day. Try to get out more!

Now I’m not knocking on Father’s Day. No question. I’m just simply saying you just have to be careful how you address the “message to all the men”, particularly on a day like today. Now I know some may ask “Are you a father?” If you say yes, get the greeting. But if they say no, just kindly refrain and say okay or I apologize. No need to say “Happy Father’s Day anyway”, because that will not count. Sorry. And also let’s be clear if a man decides that he does not want to have children or get married or both, that’s his right! Ladies, stand down. Let him decide or worry about his Legacy on his own.

And speaking of sorry, there’s a lot going on right now in the world. Reckless driving, mental health, shootings when it comes to Juneteenth, and, any black-related event with violent angles we need to clamp down on this YET AGAIN! This is not right! We also need to clamp down on everyday issues of DEI being eliminated from our Colleges and universities, the concerns of CRT being eliminated from conversations that mostly the White Supremacists (yes I said that) don’t understand, even all the banned books and poems that the so-called Right Wing didn’t even the homework. Oh, as far as folks who are so woke and confused, yes this is for the ADOS, FBA, and B1 folks, you are on my list concerning Milwaukee’s Juneteenth Day Celebration. Also, when the issues of employers are telling workers who are remote or hybrid at home, to come back to the offices, or they may face their jobs in jeopardy. The employers should be able to keep the Hybrid/Remote Jobs completely. The United Methodist Church, in full swing after their Annual Conferences is now in full swing about the post-disaffiliation regarding the split from the denomination concerning the LGBTQIA issues. Listen, that is the main reason why the UMC is in a concerned mess. And other issues that I may not name. And once again, the issues of Father’s Day and Men’s problems in all are still in the same boat when it comes to the day of Father’s being less than Mother’s Day. The same with International Men’s Day and Women’s Day.

While I put myself around some fathers that I know of, and others in general that try to devote themselves every day, I’m still scratching my head again…..

BREAKING NEWS: There are men who aren’t Fathers. So let’s not kid ourselves, ok?

Who’s having THE worst Father’s Day Weekend the most right now? Don’t just say, Donald Trump.

For all those Miami Heat fans that hated the Milwaukee Bucks, how does it really feel to end at 4-1? The same record you gave the Bucks in the first round of the playoffs. Oh, congrats Denver Nuggets.

Repeat from last year: who cashed in on the ACP Benefit from the government? This is for those who have a phone prepaid service. It’s legit! Might save you some money.

Is it too late for joining the fraternities or sororities after 40 or 45 years old? Dumb question. We know that answer, right?

Oh check this out: there are some black folks who feel that the Juneteenth Flag is offensive. Since when? 1997 when it was created by a BLACK ACTIVIST?! Do the homework, please.

For all those on Facebook who have businesses: If you post an article on your page and if someone tries to share it, it’s a go. But then you remove it based on a decision. Why did you display the posting in the first place? That doesn’t seem right.

Last year, we saw in conclusion that Walmart fumbled the ball with Juneteenth Merchandise. Remember the Ice Cream? Now, of course, many black-owned businesses are cashing in on Juneteenth items that many should have not avoided. Is that still working? Have we got it right? And unlike last year, there aren’t any Juneteenth merch in the stores though. Check Amazon.

Last June, we in the United Methodists had a decision to make. By the time the Annual Conferences come back, we have to make a choice either staying in the UMC or going Global. As in the Global Methodist Church. And it’s a lot of decision-making. So what will be the overall choice? And for those right now as the Annual Conferences had ended, who’s left to stay? And to be extra clear, this is not just United Methodists, every other denomination in some sort of comparison is going through the same thing. Let’s not kid ourselves.

CALLOUT: It seems that our Juneteenth Pageant Competition in Milwaukee had a bad reaction from these groups called, ADOS, FBA, and B1. For those who don’t know these groups, they are some organizations that are really stupid when it comes to black folks. They don’t read enough information, are always blabbing on Social Media, and have the ultimate option of disrespecting the winner of the pageant that was a graduate of Rufus King High School. Her name is Adaobi Nnamuchi, 18 years old, and has a future that would be great to follow for all young people of color as well as anyone else. She recently became Miss Juneteenth 2023 and already her name is catching on around Milwaukee. However, when it came to social media, there were mixed reactions both positive and mostly negative based on her native country of Nigeria in terms of slavery (in what they did apologize) and this is what the ADOS, B1, and FBA folks are aiming at on Social Media. I begin to wonder, what did she do? What was her crime?!!! This young lady DOES NOT deserve that reaction at all! And also all about this talk with her native country in all with slavery, what did she do to deserve this? We, adults, need to be better than this!

When folks do a story about a person, place, or idea thing, do they actually provide the facts, or just blurt out what they feel without proof?

Who’s buying Mortal Kombat 1 in the fall?

Star Trek: Picard Season 3 will be in the stores in September. Does this mean it earned respect?

How will Summerfest in 2023 go with the weekend dates and again, it does not include Sundays?

Class of 2023, how does it feel to FINALLY graduate?

International Men’s Day is 5 months away. What is the non-forgetful plan, gents? Get together, men!

Who’s the artist to gain in radio rotation or to download in Black Music Month?

When young men hear the phrase, “College is too expensive” or “College is not for everyone”. Exactly what is the motive? Discouragement? Non-Interest? What is it?

Has any male worn blue for Men’s Health Month?

So there are those who are stealing Pride Flags, and ripping them off of veterans organizations areas. What are they really afraid of?

So, in South Carolina, there was a Juneteenth Day banner that had this:

Juneteenth Banner FEATURING White Couple In South Carolina SPARKS MASSIVE BACKLASH, Roland Martin Unfiltered, 2023

What was the purpose of this banner knowing that Juneteenth is about freedom for African descent? KEYWORD: FREEDOM!

The Northcott Neighborhood House in Milwaukee is the main reason why the Juneteenth Day Celebrations still continue. You know the organization is a Wisconsin United Methodist Church institution? Yeah, research it and see why.

The 4th of July is coming in two weeks. Will Black America actually celebrate it or not? Or will we hear Lift Every Voice And Sing by Vanessa Williams or Kirk Franklin? Don’t be surprised if many put a diss rhyme about 1776. Or even an excerpt from one of Frederick Douglass’s speeches. You know the one that many don’t read the whole thing. (SPOILER ALERT!)

If you are on Wisconsin Avenue, when you see the BRT Buses rolling what is the reaction, or will be the reaction after riding them?

And the last thing: this needs to be asked for real. Of all the events that are coming up in summer, why I don’t ever see the flags on Wisconsin Avenue leading to Summerfest? That needs to come back! Any Milwaukeean should know what that means. If you don’t know what I’m talking about,

And now…this for the Fathers. Women, chill!

For all the Dads that are just now coming out, what will be your reaction to your OFFICIAL first Father’s Day?

For all the Dads that are still around kicking knowledge, what is your best advice for the new Dads coming up?

For the Men who are active as Father Figures, what is the secret that you know that most don’t know?

In Memoriam: For those of us who miss our Dads, this is hard as we know. How do we go through the storm yet again that our Dad’s memories will not die? No matter when and where? May all of our deceased fathers rest in power for eternity and in peace. Mine also.

What is up with this attitude that when Father’s Day comes around, females usually get angry? Oh, especially around this time of year? Do we get mad at Mother’s on Mother’s Day?

When the church services come on Sunday, what will be the estimated percentage of Men coming for Father’s Day? It ain’t big for many!

How many Men have actually worn Light Blue for Men’s Health Month on Father’s Day like Major League Baseball?

I say as an idea: promote International Men’s Day ON Father’s Day! Can this be done?

Should all Churches and Community Groups have an “All Men’s Day?” At least for men who are not fathers in all?  Unsung, perhaps? Some actually do.

Ok, this needs to be asked: what kind of a man is an “Unofficial” Father? or “Unofficial Dad?” Have you heard of Honorary Degrees that might be fake? Just saying.

Another question that needs to be asked again: no disrespect to Father’s Day or Mother’s Day, but why we have slept on Children’s Day AGAIN? This is every second Sunday in June. Look it up. And don’t say every day is a Children’s Day.

And………the final question of Father’s Day 2023: While many are just getting on the bandwagon, has every Father in the communities, especially Black Fathers, finally got the message to do more in the community than out of the community? What I’m getting at is about Voting, Jobs, Housing, Health and Wellness, Fraternity Memberships, Veterans Clubs, Church Groups for Men, Alumni Associations, Neighborhood Investments, Education, Virtual Communications, and many other factors that Men and Fathers need to know. All in the name of moving forward. If not, get moving! Learn, study, ask questions, network, and pass the idea to other Men/Fathers that they can better themselves, the community, and their families.

For all the Dads that read my blog, ENJOY YOUR Father’s Day. Be blessed at it. Don’t let none of the disruptive folks hate the thought you got this day. If your Dad is still around kicking knowledge, hold him close! You never know when the day or the hour when it might be his last. And don’t ever shy away from him or what he did!

Scratching my head all this time: The Father’s Day 2022 Edition.

This Sunday marks the annual tradition of Juneteenth Day. But yet, it’s also Father’s Day. Talk about a double whammy of epic proportions. For all the men who are fathers, act like the women are not at the party. Now surely there maybe those will sneak in or this or in this case that probably may just join their husbands and boyfriends and fathers and uncles and or grandfathers to celebrate their day.

But also this needs to be said: for all the women who telling all the men Happy Father’s Day, please don’t. That is just as ridiculous as saying Happy Memorial Day every May. Go figure.

There’s a reason why I’m saying this because not every man does not have kids. Not every man does not look out for kids every single day. Now if those women or if you one of those women who keeps saying “Happy Father’s Day to all men” then maybe you need to look at this from a different perspective. Let me ask, do the women say Happy Mother’s Day to all the Women who aren’t mothers? More on that later. Does any organizations or groups have an all Men’s Day event annually around Father’s Day? If so you probably may need to do that. And not only that, you need to look at another man’s day similar to Father’s Day, and it’s called International Men’s Day, which is in the month of November around November 19th. Check into that and see what you can do in order to celebrate the manual life every single day other than Father’s Day. And I know for a fact, that most of us in this country are just focused “more” about Father’s Day, than International Men’s Day. Get out more.

Now I’m not knocking Father’s Day. No question. I’m just simply saying you just have to be careful how you address the message to all the men particularly on a day like today. Now I know some may ask “are you a father?” If you say yes, okay then get the greeting. But if they say no, just kindly refrain and say okay. No need to say “Happy Father’s Day anyway”, because that will not count. Sorry. And also let’s be clear, if a man decides that he does not want to have children, or get married or both, that’s his right! Ladies, stand down. Let him decide or worry about his Legacy on his own.

And speaking of sorry, there’s a lot going on right now in the world. In America, the January 6th Insurrection ongoing investigations, reckless driving, a shortage of baby formula that will be easily fixed of course. Gas prices vs Electric Cars, an opportunity for addressing the concerns of our LGBTQIA+ members in the community especially with the church, and also many many other things that we have to talk about in which, we already know so far every single day. Including those who still think that Juneteenth Day is a joke in terms of people on social media feel that the holiday doesn’t live up to the hype. Also, there are the Midterm Elections in which these GOP folks are punks trying to undo Roe V. Wade, CRT, the John Lewis Voting Act, redlining, and did I mention that the gun laws are a still problem? Even after the school shootings in Texas? And the shooting in Buffalo, New York? As in background checks, age limits, and ect. Even blocking the ratings of President Joe Biden. While I put myself around some fathers that I know of, and others in general that try to devote themselves every day, I’m still scratching my head again…..

NEWSFLASH: There are men who aren’t Fathers. So let’s not kid ourselves, ok?

Who’s having the worst Father’s Day Weekend the most right now? Don’t just say Vince McMahon.

It is rare that Juneteenth and Fathers Day do happen on the same date. But yes, it happened in the past before the June 19th was made a federal holiday. Anyone noticed that?

Word on the street, that former Milwaukee Bucks player PJ Tucker is opting out of his contract from the Miami Heat. Can he help the deer again?

Who cashed in on the ACP Benefit from the government? This is for those who have a phone prepaid service. It’s legit! Might save you some money.

Is it too late for joining the fraternities or sororities after 40 or 45 years old? Dumb question. We know that answer, right?

Oh check this out: there are some black folks who feel that the Juneteenth Flag is offensive. Since when? 1997 when it was created by a BLACK ACTIVIST?! Do the homework please.

For all those on Facebook who have businesses: If you post an article on your page and if someone tries to share it, it’s a go. But then you remove it based on a decision. Why did you displayed the posting in the first place? Doesn’t seem right.

So what will be the actual reason why the Gas Prices are over $5.00 per gallon? Is it time to go Electric?

We see in conclusion that Walmart fumbled the ball with Juneteenth Merchandise. Yeah they did with the Ice Cream. Why is it that when some thing new comes along, here comes those who want to cash it in on marketing sales?!! But let us not forget, those will be temporary. The black owned businesses (and I mean BLACK OWNED) will continue to sell their merch year round! Just have to find them and support! I’ll do a Juneteenth Day Summary as a follow up.

Walmart Pulls Juneteenth Ice Cream; Roland Martin Unfiltered, May 2022

We knew that Boston sucked. After the Golden State Warriors won the Larry. Wait….is this the same Boston team that beat the Bucks, Heat and Nets in their “Revenge Tour?” And having their coach saying “we pride in our teammates” in all? What does that say about this?

Next year in June: Us United Methodists have a decision to make. By the time the Annual Conferences comes back, we have to make a choice either by staying in the UMC, or going Global. As in the Global Methodist Church. And it’s alot of decision making. So what will be the overall choice?

Let’s get real: Colonoscopy. Age 45 or 50? And extra question: Cologuard or no?

Anyone feeling the USFL? Or Spring Football so far?

“Martin” turns 30 this year with a reunion special with a memory tribute to Thomas Mikal Ford. Who watched it?

When folks do a story about a person, place, or thing, do they actually provide the facts, or just blurt out what they feel without proof? I’ll have more to say about that.

It seems our Election Committees are welcoming back the poll workers after 2 years being sidelined with COVID. Are we doing it, or no?

So Kerrion Franklin was in some recent major trouble, but his father Kirk bailed him out of jail. Should this be a lesson learned? After all the feelings out from him from Childhood?

Most recently, the Milwaukee Brewers have caught up with the City Connect look. What’s your opinion of it? Keep in mind, it’s an alternative look.

Brewers Unveil City Connect Look, Milwaukee Brewers, 2022

It’s sounds to me that Nintendo Switch needs better games for those in the Madden, or 90’s feel. What’s really going on here?

How will Summerfest in 2022 go with the weekend dates?

Class of 2022, how does it feel to FINALLY graduate?

Lil Nas X felt snubbed after he did not receive a nomination for the 2022 BET Awards. Someone probably said, “Bruh….you think you’ll win every year?!!!!” And it’s not because he’s gay.

Wow, the Patriot Front morons are just that: Morons! More like Jacka$$es. Just like the Tea Party, the KKK, the Neo Nazis, the overly fake Christians, and the Insurrectionists of January 6th who are so pro life all because of the LGBTQ Community Folks celebrating Pride in June. Are your kids watching?

Over 30 “Patriot Front” members arrested near Pride event in Idaho, Global News, 2022

International Men’s Day is 5 months away. What is the non-forgetful plan, gents? Get together, men!

Who’s the artist to gain in radio rotation or to download in Black Music Month?

Has Elon Musk actually made the right move to buy Twitter?

When young men hear the phrase, “College is too expensive” or “College is not for everyone”. Exactly what is the motive?

Does Milwaukee need the RNC in the city?

When the poll workers go back checking in voters, will they need security?

Has any male worn blue for Men’s Health Month?

CALLOUT: Does Walmart have black executives that were AGAINST the products of the Juneteenth Merchandise before the pushing the idea?

The Northcott Neighborhood House in Milwaukee, is the main reason why the Juneteenth Day Celebrations still continues. You know the organization is a Wisconsin United Methodist Church institution? Yeah, research.

The 4th of July is coming in two weeks. Will Black America celebrate or not? Or will we hear Lift Every Voice And Sing by Vanessa Williams or Kirk Franklin?

And the last thing: this needs to be asked for real. Of all the events that are coming up in summer, why I don’t ever see the flags on Wisconsin Avenue leading to Summerfest? That needs to come back!

And now…this for the Fathers. Women, chill!

For all the Dads that are just now coming out, what will be your reaction for your OFFICIAL first Father’s Day?

For all the Dads that are still around kicking knowledge, what is your best advice for the new Dads coming up?

For the Men who are active as Father Figures, what is the secret that you know that most don’t know?

In Memoriam: For those of us who miss our Dads, this is hard as we know. How do we go through the storm yet again that our Dad’s memories will not die? No matter when and where? May all of our deceased fathers rest in power for eternity and in peace. Mine also.

What is up with this attitude that when Father’s Day comes around, females usually get angry? Oh, especially around this time of year? Do we get mad at Mother’s on Mother’s Day?

When church comes on Sunday, what will be the estimated percentage of Men coming for Father’s Day? It ain’t big for many!

How many Men have actually wore Light Blue for Men’s Health Month on Father’s Day like Major League Baseball?

I say as an idea: promote International Men’s Day ON Father’s Day! Can this be done?

Should all Churches and Community Groups have an “All Men’s Day?” At least for men whom are not fathers in all?  Unsung, perhaps? Some actually do.

Ok, this needs to be asked: what kind of a man is an “Unofficial” Father? or an “Unofficial Dad?” You heard of Honorary Degrees that might be fake. Just saying.

Another question that needs to be asked: no disrespect to Father’s Day or Mother’s Day, but why we have slept on Children’s Day AGAIN? This is every second Sunday in June. Look it up. And don’t say everyday is a Children’s Day.

And………the final question of Father’s Day 2022: While many are just getting on the bandwagon, has every Father in the communities, especially Black Fathers, has finally getting the message to do more in the community than out of the community? What I’m getting at is about Voting, Jobs, Housing, Health and Wellness, Fraterntiy Memberships, Veterans Clubs, Church Groups for Men, Alumni Associations, Neighborhood Investments, Education, Virtual Communications and many other factors that Men and Fathers need to know. All in the name of moving forward. If not, get moving! Learn, study, ask questions, network, and pass the idea to other Men/Fathers that they can better themselves, the community, and for family.

For all the Dads that read my blog, ENJOY YOUR Father’s Day. Be blessed at it. Don’t let none of the disruptive folks hate the thought you got this day. If your Dad is still around kicking knowledge, hold him close! You never know when the day or the hour when it might be his last. And don’t ever shy away from him or what he did!

Be Thankful: 2021 Edition

SSP Thanksgiving Logo

Here are the rules: Everyone knows how this goes yet again. And it’s really simple. No need to link, or Google, or even #Hashtag. Today, many around the country and in the households or other areas, we Americans will be celebrating that holiday of food called Thanksgiving. From the socially distant Parades, to the NFL Games, Dog Shows, or other new traditional ideas that will boost the food day. And yes, there might be any going out to the clubs and shaking off the pounds to get loose for Christmas. And plus, staying home for the house parties while maintaining 6 feet virtually. Or just now, folks going shopping. Really?! Not this Thanksgiving Day.

And yes, there will be ongoing constant reminders of the horrors that our Native American brothers and sisters will not participate in this Thanksgiving Day due to the killing of their ancestors outside of a church on a Sunday morning many moons ago. Henceforth, The National Day of Mourning. But there will be reminders of why they are stating this as part of the history that has gone whitewashed.

But this holiday, yes does have the two words of Be Thankful for the things and ideas we already have. So here in its 14th Anniversary tradition, here is another traditional Stephen’s Spot Thanksgiving Blog of “Be Thankful”. Even though we are battling the Coronavirus, Delta Variant, the ongoing of systemic racism, homegrown terrorists, and among others: Break out the tablets, Smartphones, PC’s or laptops. Start reading while maintaining the quarantine style of staying put! Or masking up while vaccinated!

Before we begin the blog, let us take the time to reflect our thankfulness of this day and our thankfulness despite of the divisions, the struggles, the arguments, the valid points are given, the political angles, the issues of holidays, generational values of lessons, religious or non-religious concerns, and problems, and most of all, our personal values and goals that we want to be better and brighter for all to inspire!

If you have a GOOD PAYING job that is good for you and it pays well for you or your family, be thankful.

If you don’t have a job and still looking and STILL not quitting by going to the job fairs or making connections, or networking remotely, even in the pandemic, be thankful!

If you have good insurance, either health, auto, home, vision, or dental that you haven’t lost, STILL be thankful.

If you have a good car or truck that gets you to work every day, and still runs well with or without repairs, be thankful for that!

If you have a new home, or still fixing up your old home, or investing in a home you grew up in and not selling it to those who want to rent out, but want it for life even more: BE TRULY THANKFUL!

If you STILL have a good physician or you still don’t have one, but still want to get that monkey (and constant NAGGING) off your back, STILL be thankful about improving your health. And STILL trying. Take your time! Especially in the pandemic.

Still wearing the masks, being socially distant? BE THANKFUL!

Are you vaccinated? Be Thankful!

If you have a cool dentist and if he or she is very good and professional, be thankful.

Like any year, if you have lost any loved one this year or years past, and still feel down that the space is empty or the chair is empty, and you want to fill it up with a new generation of family members that want to pull ahead, even close friends, we must try to be thankful to carry on. It’s hard, but we must. I still miss my father, and like last year, my Thanksgiving will be different without him.

If you had folks praying for you all year for all the things you’ve been experienced no matter good or bad, be thankful that there are folks that know, and are in your corner.

If you are expecting a raise in 2022 and will be getting it, be thankful!

Do you still love your gifts and talents that are unappreciated? And still, do them all the time? Be thankful!

If you still got your parents and/or relatives as your back up, be thankful that they still care.

If you are still rediscovering your old talents in this Pandemic, Be Thankful!

Watching the football games? Either on Satellite, Digital TV or Streaming Apps? And it’s good for you? Be Thankful!

If you had a sibling in the freaking hospital more than once, who is being taken care of and heard good news about coming home, and I know this AGAIN: STILL BE THANKFUL!

Got any good neighbors that know you no matter how long? Be thankful.

Met any new neighbors lately? Or old ones coming back? Be thankful.

Moved to a different city or county, or state, or region or another country recently that you feel is best? Be thankful.

Moved back to a city, state, county, or a country that is best? Be Thankful.

Got a good plan to get that next step in your career, or a different career, and a mindset? Be thankful.

If you had connected with your colleagues or family members via Zoom, WebEx, Microsoft Teams, Facebook Live, or any other Video Chat platform while doing virtual classes, meetings, church services, and others, and still folks had a hard time with the adjustments, BUT: they are starting to turning around, BE THANKFUL!

To the Native American Folks: yes we should be thankful for you. Even though many of you may or may not partake in the Holiday, but we should be thankful for you telling the truth, a hidden point that many of us should have known since grade school. Lead us! And we must learn all hidden points that many of us need to know. Such as black history, Asian American History, Hispanic History and other Heritages that should be also told all the time!

For all of my church folks: if you want your Church to succeed despite those who want it to fail due to jealousy or no confidence with the pastors, BE THANKFUL that you are willing to fight!

If your birthday or anniversary is coming up or it already just happened, be thankful!

If you have been given a side gig, and love it to be paid with that cash money or checks, no matter what it is, and the pandemic be thankful.

Men, did you again celebrated International Men’s Day in #Movember, I mean November? Be Thankful!

Got a good pet or know a pet that knows you well? Be thankful.

If you STILL give back to your community, your Alumni, your Church, your Scholarship Committees, your Fraternity, your Sorority, your Unions or other groups that have been treating you good all this time, even in the pandemic, Be Thankful!

If you STILL appreciate the value of your former teachers or coaches, or former principals, of anyone that knew your value of education, be thankful.

If you put in the work to show up at your meetings even if you see the same people time after time, be thankful!

If you can’t wait to eat the meal that gives you life, be thankful you can still eat the grub.

Still avoiding fake news? Be thankful. They suck.

Avoiding the false news on Social Media? Be Thankful.

If you read the old blogs that I can’t control the reading, but still want to read what I want to say regardless from my black point of view, be thankful! Not just for me, but for you.

If you STILL got stuff in your house that you want to give away, be thankful. Somebody will take it.

Still fighting Racism, White Supremacy, Sexism, and others? – Be Thankful.

If you bought a share of the Green Bay Packers, and apart of the Shareholders club, yes be thankful. For those who don’t know, the Green Bay Packers are a public owned team since 1923. And for those bash it, well that is your problem.

Got a good business handy? And it’s good for you to make that money like Uber or Lyft or It Works? Hey, be thankful!

If you switch your career to a new company in the past year or will go to a new company to come, be thankful!

Own a business? Got your own time schedule? Invested in a product or material that worked? Be thankful.

If you got many reachable sources to give, or to provide, or to share, or to support, and it’s really catching on, you better be thankful!

If you are planning to vote in 2022, please be thankful! VOTE IN ALL ELECTIONS!

If you are looking forward to another holiday weekend of fun, be thankful.

If you are NOT shopping on Black Friday, but willing to spend Black Friday outdoors in the woods or parks, Be Thankful! It’s a release to avoid a violent backlash.

If you are not shopping on Black Friday, but willing to spend your cash at a local business, or on Cyber Monday, be thankful.

If you are donating to your favorite charity on Giving Tuesday, or any day, Be thankful!

If you can’t wait to finally deck your halls for Christmas or Hanukkah, or Kwanzaa, AFTER Thanksgiving (some of you did it ahead of time) Be Thankful.

If you are breathing right now normally and just woke up: be thankful.

If you were removed from a company that had you started in the game, then a rift in Management occurred, but went to another company that is good and better so far, BE THANKFUL!

If many in the black community have black pride PLUS Melanin Responsibility to uplift our black people without sarcasm and forced stuff, BE THANKFUL!

Now I have to say this: if many have given back to our Veterans or supported our military while on duty, be thankful!

If you are a Veteran or service member of the Armed Forces, that had served or still. serving, BE THANKFUL!

If you are a Veteran’s Son or Daughter, or Spouse, or Extended Family Member that has to care and summarize the loved ones stories, yes BE THANKFUL!

If you are walking tall real good, be thankful.

If you are expecting a really good breakthrough like this year or next month, BE THANKFUL!

If you still condemn any racist act on the internet, social media, at your job, or in the house, your church demoninaton, or in the neighborhood, or any act of disrespect, forced patriotism, and you had to write letters of complaints to a certain company, STILL, be always thankful to get your voice heard! Put the pressure on them on not coming back!

If you are upgrading your house to be better, be thankful!

If you got a plan to take a vacation, be thankful.

If you still have your old game systems on a Throwback Thursday and if they still work, be thankful!

If you still listen to your old school joints on your radio, or maybe some new school material, be thankful.

NOTE: For my readers that had to go through hell with school shootings, reckless driving, parade accidents, and still feeling hopeless. I want you all to understand that it’s a hard Thanksgiving Day for you as we know. But in a sense, you should be thankful that you can rebuild. And BE EXTRA THANKFUL that yet, you are still living! And be EXTRA EXTRA EXTRA THANKFUL that a breakthrough is coming for the better!

If you are a conscious-minded person, a defensive-minded person that you know is best, for your own opinions and viewpoints without any harm or hurtful feelings towards humanity, be thankful!

For my Sagittarius readers: guess what? Our season is back! Are we thankful now? (SAGS RULE!) Shoot your shot!

And finally: If I missed anything that many have thought about, and it’s good: we all should be and forever so thankful that we must march on. Like they say at the black funerals: It’s already been said. It’s already done.

Happy Thanksgiving!

#BeThankful

Three Way Dance: For real though, this is the one.

Ladies and Gentlemen: It’s really time for another THREE WAY DANCE! I had planned for another Three Way Blog previously, but I decided to just focus on one story regarding Women’s History Month/International Women’s Day. And the usual why International Men’s Day still lingers as in example. BUT HOWEVER: as of the present time, I need to shift focus on three mini stories that I must dive into that needs my own personal opinion of editorial. Now many of you know how this goes, but for those that don’t, I choose three headlines, write a mini summary of my what do I think stuff and well, post it. That’s about it. So the dance cards are set regarding the hate against our Asian-American folks, the ongoing barrage of Kirk Franklin vs his son’s concern and for all my Gen X folks, we don’t need no one’s approval about restoring this thing about the “so-called Cancel Culture”.

This needs to be addressed: For our Asian-American folks, my sympathies. When the shooting in the spa in Atlanta recently happened as we all know, was a tragic one indeed. What that reminded me that this shooting took me back to Brookfield, Wisconsin little over 8 years ago. The Azana Spa and Salon was a target of the shooting that had a few injured or maybe killed at the time. Actually it was 4 people including Radcliffe Franklin Haughton committed suicide. And to think, that yes, this was in a Milwaukee Suburb! Not the city, in a Suburban area near Brookfield Square Mall. This was not racially motivated. This was an act of domestic dispute in which Haughton’s Ex-Wife was seen with someone else. Haughton’s ex was trying to calm him down with the situation, but it wasn’t enough. And then the unthinkable was in concern that all of the victims including Haughton died on the scene. Radcliffe was 45 years old. A black man had domestic issues. And this even gathered attention of the Country for the second time in Wisconsin, since the Sikh Temple in Oak Creek was interrupted by gunfire, and also even President Obama had to reach out and be informed of the situation in Brookfield. And Brookfield is in Waukesha County. A Red REPUBLICAN COUNTY, that was once a county for liberals. GOOGLE IT!

Now, to fast forward in Atlanta: A shooting in Atlanta in a nail salon where 7 victims all Asian-American were killed by one white man who in his words had a “Bad Hair Day”. So technically this dude wanted a hair cut, and didn’t get one, so after his complaint, he decides to shoot the Salon and killing innocent people. Many folks since then have called this a hate crime. But you might want to put in mental issues too because how are you going to have a mental issue of a BAD HAIR DAY, and then killing people? That doesn’t make no sense at all. Again, All this “hate” against the Asian Americans folks is really stupid. Just like the hate against Blacks, Jews, Latinos, Native Americans, and many others ethnics that are out in the world doing positive, but yet better things to thrive. In the recent events, there have been this barrage of hate against our Asian American neighbors whom are also our friends, colleagues, alumni, classmates, friends, and yet many of us may have family members whom are Asian American by mixed relationships. Majority of them do not have this so-called spreading thing regarding the ongoing Covid-19 virus that has plagued our country and the world within the past year. Look, they have nothing to do with this. PERIOD! They are fighting the same fight as many of us are each day to this virus and they like many of us whom are not of Asian American Decent, want to “get back to normal” like it was before. But this hate against them again, IS JUST STUPID! Just like it’s stupid to hate black folks just because their black! Let me stop right there. For the Asian American Community: Continue to speak out against the debauchery of injustice!

2. Others maybe asking this fair question: Has Kerrion Franklin ever been interviewed?

I’m sure that everyone probably heard the recordings of the tyranid of Kirk Franklin, and his first born son Kerrion. This angle as we know all started with the issue of cussing. In which Kirk called his son a B***ch A** during the heated phone call, in which Kerrion recorded, and of course went viral on Social Media. About a day after the shock, Kirk Franklin went on his FB Page to issue an apology to the public in regarding his outburst regarding his son. Later after that he along with his wife Tammy we’re on Tamron Hall to discuss the dilemma that were in shockwaves. In between, Kerrion of course went to his Instagram page and made his own commentary about the turn of events ranging from the first and last family picture on Jet Magazine in the early 2000’s.

And most recently, Kerrion’s mother Shawn Ewing discussed the matter on a podcast from Texas. Wait… .hold the phone: Kerrion’s mother was speaking about this as well?! So let me get this straight: Shawn Ewing just appeared in the realm, talking about her son?!!! Press ▶️ below:

Shawn Ewing, mother of Kerrion Franklin speaks via The Heart Beat.

So after seeing that footage of Kerrion’s mother explaining to the audience that she and Kirk Franklin were young co-parents, things now begin to ask what happened in the beginning as they were being young parents to their firstborn son? See like when a baby is born, of course and everybody knows this we get so highly jovial and excited that a life is being brought into this world and having the ability to make a pledge or make an honorary pledge to that child that we’re going to do whatever it takes to make sure that this child has a better good life. However, that is not always the case. And the reason why I say this is because as everybody knows that when a child grows up in the world full of anger and hate and hostility and toxic relationships you know that it’s not always the case of having that perfect life!

I think based on the videos and based on the commentary that carry on life in the beginning may have started out very very well, but it’s somewhat grew into this uneven metamorphosis of what’s really going on in his household that he grew up in. Now, Kerrion is speaking in his words his truth regarding the therapies. regarding his memories of his father telling him these words of toxicity into his mind or into his soul or into his well-being. and having to go through at least 14 to 15 years of turmoil in his commentary on Instagram being as a parental abuse.

Of course that’s what he stated and that’s what he thinks. And of course that is his opinion. However in in a nutshell, this is the million dollar question: His father was interviewed by Tamron Hall. His birth mother was recently interviewed, but he has not been interviewed. The question remains to be fair and this is a fair question to ask: has Kerrion Franklin been interviewed? And the reason why I’m asking this question is because I feel that it’s apparently fair that we need to hear what he has to say. We need to hear what he needed to discuss. We needed to hear what he really needs to say. We’ve seen his Instagram footages, read about the stories on Facebook, and our news feeds. And we have read the tweets on Twitter. But still, Kerrion Franklin needs to be interviewed professionally and fairly by those who will be willing to interview him. Maybe this idea could carry out an idea to allow him to say what he needs to say and also his birth mother and Kirk Franklin needs to listen. Everybody on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram excused him was talking about him being as a child.

The man is almost 33 years old….. come on people! This dude is approaching 33 years of age and many people think to say “Oh, I thought when you get to be a certain age you supposed to leave that stuff behind or you supposed to leave that stuff alone and it shouldn’t it shouldn’t bother you because of your futures coming up.” But people are forgetting one simple detail: sometimes that’s not always the case. Sometimes people will tend to have a hard time going through this life based on what someone said to them or to him or to her or to them years ago. This happened to me, this happened to others that I know personally, and this happened to those that I knew professionally. And this is an ongoing story that affects humans 365 days a year. Who are we kidding?

I say that yes one person has their side, another person has their side, but in the middle there’s the truth. So the extra question is what is the real truth behind this angle? Where does it come from and how can it be resolved in a peaceful manner? That’s the one true thing that has to happen between him and Kirk Franklin. It needs to happen, and it needs to happen real fast. Yes it has been a dismal 14 plus years without being in a family photo, or going to a family holiday dinner, or a family gathering, or a family anything. and many are probably siding with Kirk Franklin already because that the interview phone call with his son him cursing him out and got viral over the internet was inappropriate. have I disagree with my parents? yes I did. Have I made mistakes that they disagree with? yes I did. I’m not going to say what they are, but I know deep down on my mind that I knew what I did way back when was kind of not very nice per se. However despite of the pros and cons relationship with my parents, I have never stated anything personal on social media regarding them in a negative fashion. If we were to do that, it would have been a whole out of bounds. However like adults, you have to come to the table and actually talk it out and find a common ground solution no matter what. 14 seconds or 14 years, you have to find a common ground and that’s the bottom line.

Just recently on YouTube there was a footage of DL Hughley doing a comic routine talking about Jesus being saved gospel music and Kirk Franklin. and it was one of his comedic routines that he had a thought about maybe “one of these days I’m going to hear Kirk Franklin cuss”. We thought he was joking. But as we all heard most recently of this year it appears that DL Hughley has something in common with The Simpsons; they both predicted this it will happen and guess what, it did happen. You just never know what a comedian may hear a story or predict a story that you may find laughable, but then again just wait another 20 plus years somebody in the future is probably going to be recording or storing up something that might blow your mind. Oh my God the man cussed on the telephone because of son’s nature of negativity! And then there’s going to be talks about “all Christians shouldn’t curse because it’s ungodly”. The son should have apologize to his father for stating what he have found on social media. From my perspective they both need to come to Jesus meeting. So we know this story is not partially over, because it’s been ongoing for the last 14 plus years. The main reason why we’re finding about this now, because it’s been picked up and of course we don’t know what the outcome may be. But hopefully along the way, the two Franklin men must have common ground regardless of the situation. Pray for them and the Family.

*As of press time: it appeared that Kerrion Franklin was interviewed by Larry Reid. Never heard of him, but this is actual summary of the interview below:

Kerrion Franklin speaks to Larry Reid (in summary).

Generation X Members: Remember back in our day of fun when those older that us went against Baggy jeans, our music of expression, war toys like GI Joe; Thundercats, or Rambo? Remember when they tried to come for The Simpsons, especially about Bart Simpson, of when Martin was on, even Ricki Lake, Jenny Jones or even yes, Jerry Springer ruled with an iron fist but was looked at as being disturbing? Or even when Married….With Children was on TV that was label “x-rated”? It wasn’t that worse. And they the older conservative folks or those in the house told us not to watch them because of what they thought was pressuring us to be bad citizens? Or maybe when we had those ideas to see what was like but just couldn’t? This whole “Cancel Culture” thing is not new to us because we went through it. And even though we kind of watched those shows or listened to those music tracks, or played those toys, or read those books like Green Eggs and Ham, did many of us turned out fine? Have we received our education, our service to community or country, our first home, our first REAL JOB, paying the bills, inspiring the next generation to be better, or even doing the important things that we were told to do under the “Baby Boomer rules”, that many of us disagreed with? Well if your alive right now and not paying attention of what Fox News is telling you to save the world from Cancel Culture we must be keeping the faith and staying the course. After all, aren’t we the slacker generation that wasn’t supposed to mount to anything? Unreal.

I need all of the Generation X members to not follow Fox News. CANCEL THAT FOX NEWS!

I need all the Generation X members to follow their gut and their opinion and their experience to not to listen to those other Republican fans to tell our so-called slacker generation to save the likeliness of Green eggs and Ham and other things that made somewhat feel that is a concern of this so-called mutated cancel culture. As I already stated Generation X, we’ve been through this before. we remember the shows that we used to watch and the music use and listen to that probably contain a whole lot of crude lyrics explicit content and also commentary don’t make our parents kind of flip and destroying the television. but the real reason why I’m saying this is because the things that was regarding certain types of cartoons and books that we used to read and watch his kids are being viewed very differently right now. Pepé Le Pew is not going to be in the new upcoming Space Jam movie because of his somewhat explicitly approach when it comes to a black cat disguised as a skunk and trying to get her to date him. Many people will think to say oh really? Pepe Le Pew seriously is going after the cat who he thinks is a skunk and assuming that he likes the cat was a female, and it wants no part of a womanizing skunk that is just wants to be loved . Oh my Lord what have we become?

If Pepe Le Pew was a bothersome character of our generation, why didn’t our baby boomer parents never told us to turn off the TV, and to read a book on a Saturday morning cartoon day? Oh I know maybe that we had to do it during the week in order to finish our homework. But fast forward to this era where folks are kind of getting soft on certain things that they do not understand. Yes we are living in a new time, a new era, a new generation where the things of our past are becoming somewhat judgmental by the current status of leaders and who feel that it is a bit old. Remember the rebel flag on the Dukes of Hazzard car, the General Lee? They pulled it because of the flag’s historical reference when it came to slavery discrimination the civil war Jim Crow laws. If that was a concern a few years ago, then why was it a big issue right now in 2010 – 2021? Or when a time when hip hop music was considered as innocent that anybody can dance to, anybody can say the same lyrics like the current rappers, but then again when we here about rap artists that use crude lyrics, and communicating their concerns with the street, this is where the older generation loses control by not paying attention in my view of what’s really going on what they’re trying to say.

I’ll be honest with you, when I was growing up I couldn’t listen to explicit music in my parents house, because they won’t allow it. Now if it was “clean” rap music without swear words, without explicit content like they used to play on the radio back in the day, and the radio versions will not play an Ice Cube song that had too many explicit content in it, or Eazy-E, or NWA rap song that has explicit content on it, no I can’t play that. However if it was on the radio that was screened and/ or controlled how it was played, then that part was fine no problems there. Back in the day when Michael Jackson had Thriller (the album not the video) the whole album was innocent. No swear words. No explicit content. You just pop the record inside of the the HiFi stereo system and listen to the songs and you dance to it. Now you pop in a MP3 song into your radio, or if you still use CDs put that into your machine, or use your smartphone to amplify the sound from your device to the speaker that picks up the Bluetooth signals, you can still do those things but then again somebody probably might say “why can’t we listen to the other music right there? why can’t we look listen to the music that we want to hear?” You have to let these young cats know that when I play my music, is on MY system! When you get grown, and play your music on your system in your house, then you can do that. That was the talk that we Gen Xers had to receive when we were growing up. But it seems that us in the unappreciative land of Generation X, is somewhat getting this order from a bunch of Republicans, who by the way wanted to cancel the likes of John Denver, Dee Snyder, and Frank Zappa. Remember them? Well they were talking about crude lyrics back in 1985 when a certain future Vice President and a future Second Lady were in Congress at the time? Let me save the suspense for you, it was the then Senator then later Vice President and 2000 Presidential Candidate Al Gore and his wife Tipper. And Tipper Gore was one of the people at the time in the ’80s that was leading the charge in getting a parental advisory sticker onto certain records that contains explicit lyrics or explicit content in which many folks are still buying today.

This is why that Generation X, in my personal view is not actually doing what Fox News is suggested. They’re not doing it at all because of the “Cancel Culture” examples of what my generation had gone through in my youth. So in the current generation of the likes of Cardi B and Meg Thee Stallion performed the song called WAP, that describes an idea of two women exploring their sexuality. And as I indicated last time on the blogs back in 2020, that they’ll be those who will hate the song, but then again Cardi B and Meg Thee Stallion are still going to go to the bank and get paid for that song, and that song is going to be like another remix of a hit for the next Class Reunions. And guess what, that won’t be anybody else’s stopping them for playing the music, because they’re going to play it anyway! Let’s be real. We going through to the same thing as now in our 40s and 50s age brackets. But to hear from a conservative rebel Network of Fox News, which by the way started as a “Rebel Network” of the likes of Married……..With Children. To have my generation to be caught up on to correct all this cancer culture stuff some folks tend to forget: That the folks that raise the folks who wanted this to end; were raised by the same generational parents that wanted explicit music and content to be banned from the air, to be banned from stores, and to be banned from the radio stations.

Am I making some sense? I should.

Scratching my head all this time – in 2020

Oh you know I’m about to go in. 2020 was crazy! It had me on point, it had me on rotation, and it had me bugged out. But at the end of me asking these crazy questions we might understand it better. But…since this is the last Scratching my Head all this time of the year, but it’s not the last! So as we countdown to the last ticks of 2020, and we prepare for our virtual social distant Watch Night Services, All Night parties, and family gatherings to usher in transition of 2021, and yes to get our resolutions out of what we want to do in all: you’ve guessed it, I’m scratching my head YET AGAIN!

Alright, who remembers any of my blog posts from 10 years ago like 2010?

You know that 2021 starts the NEW OFFICIAL Roaring 20’s, right?

Did anyone from the Republicans actually paid attention that 45 got beat?

The Voters won November. Am I Right?

I predicted that Tom Barrett will be a 5 time mayor. And I was right. Questions?!!!

What’s up with the Democrats and this inner circular war that is still going?

Which Documentary was best in 2020? “The Last Ride”, or “The Last Dance?”

What will the health industry do to boost up the warnings for the COVID-19?

Word is that MeTV is bringing back Saturday Morning Cartoons in 2021. If that’s the case, then is really needed after all the so-called rumors about them being distractive to young minds after 25 plus years!

So many folks didn’t like the WAP? All because of Megan Thee Stallion and Cardi B expressing the sexually charged ideas as black women rappers! Songs and sex aren’t new. And men, why the hate?

Why was White Supremacy remained a maximum programmed problem? Even if it’s a problem among black people in 2020?

So people thought that Facebook was getting so big. Now it has to be separated. Really?!

Did Snoop Dogg learned his lesson after Gayle King?

The Indians names were quickly dissolving for Washington Football and soon to be – Cleveland. Reminders anyone?

Wrestling fans, I get it. We miss the Undertaker. But after him, who’s next to cheer for?

What will be next for the Green Bay Packers that got into the playoffs and winning the North? Same or different?

You know that again the Milwaukee Bucks want to be for real for a Championship? Since Giannis signed 5 years?

So which folks in Milwaukee, has benefited of riding the Streetcar thus far in its still free 2nd year while in the Pandemic?

Is the Fiserv Forum ready for year three?

What was the best car in 2020?

Did MK11 really played well again this year?

Show of hands: who never gave Joe Biden a chance in the debates nor rallies nor the election?

What were the worst jobs of 2020 that many will NEVER DO AGAIN for another decade or year?

Are you or were you watching Roland Martin Unfiltered?

Was this the third year that many REALLY recognized International Men’s Day in November on Twitter?!

For all of the Becky’s and other white folks that called the police on black folks doing civilized stuff this year and you know you did, where were your conscious minds doing that foolishness in 2020?! Black folks, keep your cell phones on Horizontal and hit the record button! Make them pay!

Proud Boys, really? Who were these guys?

If you smelled like Marijuana all through 2020, and you’re in the store or were in a store, did you remember to wash up before leaving the house? Like seriously! There was alot of that.

What was up with Russia and these Cyberattacks? Like really?

When will be the right time for many to explore NEW YORK for New Year’s Eve?

Will the Wisconsin Badgers win the Rose Bowl the right way?

What about those Packers so far? Can they be actually SuperBowl Ready? Yes, I’m realizing what I’m saying!

The group, NFAC or the No F***ing Around Coalition has been a surprise this year with black men being strapped. Will that continue?

For all those hated Introverts, not understand Introverted people, especially BLACK Introverts, why you picked on them? Like seriously. They are not you! And 2020 was the year that Introverts struck back…..at home!

What will it ACTUALLY take to get Bayonetta 3 on the Switch?!! Matter of fact, what will it take to get House of the Dead Overkill playable on the Switch?

Oh, this needs to be asked, Sniper Elite 4, as well as No More Heroes was good in 2020. Will it be another good game for the Nintendo Switch next year?

Star Trek: Picard was a hit. Who’s ready for Season 2?

Which jobs or careers were or are beneficial for the introverted crowd in Wisconsin in 2020, since many were at home?

Which jobs were good ones in 2020 that were COVID-19 proof?

In 2020, did many benefited using bitcoins or bought Stock?

When the Grads of 2020 had their moment of commencements, did we offer their congrats? Virtually?

Who has or is really learning from Roland Martin’s show online after one year?

What was the worst interview this country has ever seen in 2020?

Bad Boys for Life was that movie. WW84 same in 2020. What else?

Black Church folks, are you ready for the Virtual Watch Night Services?

Was not getting the flu shot that bad in 2020?!

Black folks, why are we still saying the N-Word? Why is that really?!

In 2020: who got promoted?

In 2020: who actually voted? Not just one time during the Presidential election!

In 2020: Did many actually went to the doctor, after praising them with the COVID-19 warnings? This means you too, MEN!

In 2020: Did any of you retained your resolutions? Hearing that the word no comes to mind.

In 2020: Milwaukee, did you missed the State Fair as well as Summerfest because of the CoronaVirus?

In 2020: Have any of you saved up financially for that nest egg?

In 2020: level with me, how many times that many of you DID NOT support your Alumni groups? EVERYBODY MUST BE GUILTY OF THIS.

In 2020: Who did the most work in your community? Don’t say the same people!

In 2020: Who did the least work in your community but never was recognized?

In 2020: Who did no work in the community? They need to be called out.

In 2020: Who was the “Dark Horse” in your family, church, organizations, etc? The ones that you never expected!

In 2020: who has a job lined up for 2021 that will be even MORE SECURE?

In 2020: Who wanted a job lined up that no one wanted but applied anyway?

In 2020: How many churches you prayed to, in order to be the best they can? Be honest.

In 2020 : What influenced you to vote against the Republicans that many despised?

In 2020: Milwaukee, was including Black Veterans at the War Memorial not a bad thing? And the real deal was previously, there was NO MENTION OF THEM!

For all the Masons, Order of Eagles, Shriners, Divine 9, American Legion Family, Elks, VFW and others, based on what I have read so far, regarding young folks joining your groups: what are you going to do about it and what will you do to get new members? For example, DJ Spinderella just joined Sigma Gamma Rho this year. And in her 50’s. Same with Anthony Anderson joining Omega Psi Phi. But what about those still want to get it under the college stat or graduate stat?

Is Tesla the new GM? Or is GM is still GM?

I need to ask also, who will miss Black Lightning? It’s the last season.

With all the retirees retired this year, who is next to go in 2021? (Mostly well known in local media)

If many still did blackface in 2020 which was shameful, can many not do it in 2021?

Who actually “migrated” out of Milwaukee in 2020 that moved to Atlanta or Texas just to get away from the racism, but only to realize that racism is everywhere? Like violence?

If you hated Church folks so much in 2020, why keep talking about it?! Especially those who keep sharing those false memes?!

Should the Army Black Knights team still sell those Tropic Lightning gear to those that had loved ones served in Vietnam?

CALLOUT – This needs to be asked EVERY YEAR: There has been this disdain that College is not for everyone. We have heard that. And also, there has been this talk about apprenticeships are better than college, it’s the job skills, not the education. Let me ask this: can Colleges/Universities and the Apprenticeships can actually come together and talk face to face to discuss actually what is needed to get to the part about the jobs after education? And feed it to the Alumni (especially for those who graduated years ago and still haven’t found the right job) and Community? And stop having this disdain about Colleges aren’t a solution! For real, colleges can be a solution, but not the only solution! Just as the Military is not the only way, trades aren’t the only way. You need a combo package to discuss this ongoing subject!

*And for the record, I have nothing against apprenticeships or for those going for them. I am against the fact that they don’t talk to each other and finding a common ground.

Has Distance Learning or Virtual Classes been respected this year?

If many did this in 2020: Resumes. Did many kill it for job interviews?

Can someone explain again the bad connection between buying Christmas gifts and Tax Time again?

In all of the 1,000 posts so far, what wasn’t mentioned?

In all of the 1,000 posts so far, what must be mentioned from me?

In all of the 1,000 posts what was learned from you?

In all of the 1,000 posts did anyone ever to follow what else I had to say?

Which jobs ruled in 2020? The site jobs or the home jobs?

Which Wisconsin teams surprised many in 2020? Brewers, Packers, Badgers, or Bucks?

Milwaukee had over 100 homicides in 2020. What will it take?

Of all the folks who passed away this year, who was the main person that didn’t receive much recognition?

Of all the folks who were honored this year for their hard work, service work, or even milestone work, who didn’t get any recognition after their hard work?

Anyone lost their job unfairly in 2020 before and during the pandemic?

Who was EMBARRASSED HARSHLY in 2020 that will not go away? And will it take a long time to heal?

When folks in the United Methodist Church talk about the future of Black Churches, how come many pass over it? And what is the main reason why many UMC objectifying the reasons of not including the LGBTQIA Community as being outcasts?!

Which reunions had to be cancelled in 2020? Especially if it’s an milestone. Crazy!

And this is the last question before the ball drops and clocks out for 2020: What will you carry into 2021 that you learned in 2020? And also, what will you NOT take into 2021 that you went through hellfire and brimstone in 2020?

Everything else is remained to be seen.

Now: let’s go party.

Ride on.

Happy New Year!

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Red Alert: We all must rise against the Coronavirus Part II. And the stupidity must stop!

Oh you thought I was done, huh?

You thought the last blog about the Coronavirus was the last? Well apparently not because like many I’ve been observing all of the cases, deaths, so called conspiracies, closings, delays, and yes those godawful protests of the right wing fools dressed in the battle flags, Gadsden Flags and this thing about Liberating this state and that state. Oh did I forget to mention that our so-called president told us to inject or inhale Lysol? This fool is trying to kill us with a household product that we use everyday to spray our bathrooms to inject that into our bodies to wear off the Coronavirus. If you really did that, consider yourself extremely stupid!

In the last couple of weeks, since many of the states have declared themselves Safer At Home, or Stay At Home there has been alot of “So Far” Stats in regarding to the spread of COVID-19. And yet many are still observing the stats daily with New York State on a constant basis. And of course we still had to hear what 45 had to say in which may are feeling that he is still straight LYING to us in terms of the “invisible enemy” of the Corona. The more he tells this, I’m changing the channel because it’s stupid of him to address the American people of what’s is really going on! The folks who really are feeling the pinch of the Coronavirus is those whom are uninsured have high fevers, real shortness of breath, diabetes, high blood pressure and many other factors of those whom are over 60 that could be and can be are effected. And for those of us whom are Black, we got it the worst. Why do I bring this up, is because it’s no secret. Anytime we see these humanistic symptoms come up we know instantly somebody might say, “Black people aren’t effected. It’s all about money when Coronavirus is mentioned. Then we are all scared in junk……” For all those who think that, you must be drunk with some serious malt juice. And in the last several weeks, in addition with non-blacks dying, black folks have been effected. We know it. And many like to crack jokes like it’s hood comics. WAKE UP! When your friend or family member gets the Coronavirus and DIES, its game over. More recently, I just lost one of my former teachers that I had since college in the late 1990’s. And the teacher, Leonard McGhee was just 75 years old! This was one of my printing teachers from the Milwaukee Area Technical College that I truly followed. And yet you folks want to crack assumptions that the Coronavirus is fake. Oh you all better stop this mess and get real serious about the pandemic. If you’re not that serious, your Mortician or Undertaker is preparing your burial. Keep acting a fool, keep the masks off, no bandanas, no nitrite gloves, keep playing outside, and oh, keep messing around when the cops will arrest you for breaking the Safe Home Laws. More below.

What is also stupid during the Coronavirus? Our so called Republicans in Wisconsin are going to the lawmakers to get the extension of the Safer At Home Order blocked in order to reopen the state. Oh great, leave it to the @$$Clowns of Robin Vos and Scott Fitzgerald to get all the citizens in Wisconsin to DIE! Seriously, these folks want many folks to perish for their personal gain of egos. Even black folks to die away quickly. The Safer At Home Order was extended to May 26th to give time for the State to evaluate the situation of the pandemic. But oh no, the GOP are desperate fools that want to rush the Governor to get all the systems to go by May 11th. What’s even worse is that, the so-called protesters that made fools of themselves with the flags and rifles outside of the Capitol with all that White Privilege were leading the charge. But I also hate to say this, but May 11th is not going to cut it. Nope! No really knows when this pandemic will be over. Another problem with the stupidity: DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS ON THE RISE! That is a hard one if you know someone or are someone that is going through the problems. And keep in mind, Domestic Violence is STILL a problem! Not just women, but also men and children are effect. Yes I did say MEN why because they get hit also by those who do the damage all the time. Even during the Coronavirus.

Also, beginning this week, in Milwaukee, the Milwaukee Police Department will be handing out L’s. Fines of $500.00 in regarding to those who don’t comply with the Governor’s Orders. They said they would do this and they are not messing around. Have they indicated this before? Yes. Press play:

That was March 23rd. Last month. So don’t act like “Oh I didn’t know. Nobody told me…..” You all should have known that would happen and guess what, according to the news, approximately 133 citizens were arrested for violating the Safer At Home Order. Those are facts. Other cities and suburbs are doing the exact same thing maintaining law and order during the pandemic.

Again it’s not a joke. Know what else: our Milwaukee festivals are cancelled and/or delayed, our July 3rd Fireworks Show is canceled until next summer, some of our businesses can and cannot operate due to getting our hair cuts, nails done, and hosting other needs the most. And by the way, if you’re one of those house calls fools that still operate against the order, you’re dumb as hell. You really want to get a pedicure during a pandemic? Seriously? Oh you still want to congregate in your Church building during this? You mean to tell me that you can’t pray at home or have church at home online? You can do that you know! Don’t be that stupid like those Pastors in Louisiana and Florida that had recently been placed on house arrest and or fined but they still keep coming and congregating. And recently other Pastors who have done this so far, DIED! And to add those who lead and protested the Safer At Home Orders just got the Coronavirus!

But on the flip Some businesses are being tweaked to open up SLOWLY BUT SURELY! On the other hand, they also have to abide by the rules of social distancing. So it’s going to take a while.

Expect a Part III in a blog letter to the Milwaukee Public Schools. And why they should get on the ball for Virtual Learning.

My take: Forgiveness is always hard. And for many we already know it ain’t easy.

With the news circulating the story regarding the murder of Botham Jean from 2018, the court case has been sharply examined with Amber Gutter being the murderer she was of doing the job. We know this so well and all the drama that went along with it. It’s been a year of heartache and distress. And us in the black community, we are known to let this slide and branch out. Yet its still another day to conquer.

But I want to take a moment to discuss is the subject of forgiveness. Oh let’s go there. This whole thing about Botham Jean’s youngest brother hugging Amber Guyger has really upset the entire Black Community after the footage that has escalated the masses of commentary. And that same commentary was not very liked. 10 times over, it was not liked nor appreciastd of what was learned in a place that many black folks have not or will not go on sundays. Yep I’m talking about Church. It seems that the issue of Christianity has once again has hit the folks and many had bashed Botham Jean’s Brother in the thought of him hugging the woman who murdered his older brother in 2018. And he, asked the judge if it’s alright to hug her. He did. And not only that, the judge hugged her also, whom is BLACK! And now many are questioning or commenting that oh, he’s bowing down to his oppressor, and or it’s being brainwashed of him hugging her due to the mental slavery mentality. Don’t believe me? Look at your Social Media folks, WHO DON’T GO TO CHURCH, NOR NOT WANTS TO GO! They were all over this like white on rice. Look at those who write these opinionated thoughts about religion and haven’t have a darn clue of the positive side of things, rather they want to rant about the negative angles. I said it before and I’ll say it again, there are good and bad in all things! Look at your jobs, your clubs, your recent class reunions, or some sort of organized atmosphere and yes even though that the NFL and NCAA are celebrating milestones this year of 100 and 150 with the throwback jerseys and uniforms. But those whom wore the originals, wore them at a time when there were no black folks playing Football and to bust down barriers of hate just to play on the gridiron. And all of this was way before Colin Kaepernick was even thought about!

CALLOUT: Since when, just when the word or action of forgiveness has become the thing of being bad? Since when the word forgiveness is or had become the thought of being an enemy of the people? Yes, we all even if you had gone atheist claiming there is no God, but we all had to draw a thought to get the subject of forgiveness as an understanding of getting things out and admitting the faults or mistakes. That is the true thought of ideas. It’s not to make you look like a wussy.

Ask yourself, how many of you reading my blog or past blog stories had ever asked to be forgiven or had been asked by others to forgive? Be honest. And I know you have been asking in a sense, “when was Stephen was forgiven of anything, or had Stephen accepted a forgiveness angle of someone that had hurt him? No matter when it was, where it was, and how it was. No matter if it was in church, or school, or even in the family?” You know what, I had folks telling me “I’m Sorry.” Or I had told folks, I’m Sorry. But I also had folks telling me that saying sorry is not enough. I had folks telling me I’m sorry of the crap they did to me, but I have NOT forgiven them. Oh……I know what you’re thinking. “Dude you go to church every Sunday, in that building for 2 hours doing your thing with your members, and you on here telling folks that other people hating on you for some stuff and you have NOT forgiven them?” And oh…..here comes a trying question: “What kind of God you serve?”

Oh, ok. So many of you probably think that if I don’t forgive a person that make me a bad guy? Is that what God is expected of me? The kind of God I serve, is a everlasting forgiving, and fearful God that is far more superior than folks who hate on Church. No matter what my stats or my interests are. No matter what I have done wrong or done right, nor matter if I worked a little or volunteered alot. Even though I may not a perfect person growing up in Milwaukee, Wisconsin the very same Milwaukee that many black folks have dubbed as “the most segregated city in the United States”, have a little menial job of a Church Secretary, or having 2 college degrees, active in my community for my Church and Alumni, and wants a challenge in life in my 40’s with dealing the fact of Type Two Diabetes in session that I did not ask to come into my life, I said it before and I’ll say it now, I am not perfect. If the folks did me wrong so bad, and I have said it million times on this blog, I’m holding folks accountable. Doesn’t matter how long it takes. I’m not able to send out the “I accept your apologies” yet. Nope, that is way too easy. I want that person or persons to be held accountable of what was transpired and to accept the fact they were wrong period. No matter if they were BLACK OR WHITE! No matter if they’re Baby Boomers, Generation X, and Z, and the Millennial folks. Yes I’m putting all of that on blast because now a days, many want to simply forget and move on. Yes we really want to forget and move on, but I say: NEVER FORGET! Where did I heard those words from? Everytime when the issue of the holocaust comes up, the Jewish folks always says, never forget. When 9/11 or any other anniversary act of danger is being remembered, we all say never forget. But when the issue of slavery comes up, we black folks had these words scripted so many times: Get over it. Yeah, follow that. Oprah Winfrey asked Michael Jackson on his interview back in 1993 this one question: “Can you really forgive?” Like Barack Obama once said in his presidency, “Hold me accountable”. He was real when he said it. But for what I said earlier, it depends on the issue and the later stances of that person(s) at fault.

From the article of CNN.com:

It’s part of their Christian faith
Forgiveness is mentioned many times in the Bible and is a pinnacle of the Christian faith.
“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you,” reads Ephesians 4:32. Another verse, Matthew 6:14, goes further: “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.”
These sentiments of forgiveness are reiterated again and again throughout the Bible, and Botham’s family is quite acquainted with this Christian tradition. Like his brother, Brandt was raised in the Church of Christ in St. Lucia, where his family lives. His mother, Allison Jean, gave all of her three children Biblical middle names. Botham Jean’s middle name was Shem, who was a son of Noah. Brandt’s middle name is Samuel, after a prophet in the Old Testament.

Let’s be honest, forgiveness is hard to accept. It’s truly hard. It’s not easy. It’s not simple. Every time when we church folks take communion every 1st Sunday of the month, we read a passage from our hymnals that deal with the words: “In the name of Jesus Christ, you are forgiven!” And many of us repeat the words to one another and say the same thing. Many of us had prayers in circles that we ask God for forgiveness no matter what act of intent was done. No matter if it was taken out of context or whatever. Hear me when I say and everyone knows: GOD KNOWS ALL! How many of us who ever been bullied in school NEVER FORGAVE anyone that tormented you all those years? How many of us got bullied on the job, in a club, organizations, and many others that never EVER FORGAVE that person or persons for what they have done? (Male or Female) How many of us NEVER FORGAVE that pastor, church member, or that fraternity/sorority member, or supporter or leader, or any other person not mentioning that still burns your blood even to this very day, and DOES NOT DESERVE any type of forgiveness? Now we are getting somewhere! Yeah, lets go folks. It’s go time! As a matter of fact, I brought this up before on this blog years back.

Now getting back to Amber Guyger who is about to be in jail for 10 years killing Botham Jean in his Apartment in Texas by minding his own business, was the central point of the incident. And Botham Jean’s Brother, Brandt gave her a hug that many felt was a trap for White Supremacy. Brandt is 18 years old. He’s young. And yet, he’ll have alot to learn in his later years about being black and being questioned about his faith and beliefs in regarding his hug on Amber Guyger. His mother, meanwhile commented that his son did his honorable thing, but also commented via her husband that “it may have consequences”. Uh-Oh! That is part many need to know in this subject. Even I didn’t expect this. Part of this is the truth, whether we admit it or not. So where do I stand in all this? Well, it’s on pins and needles. Part of me is saying, I don’t know about this one. The woman again shot an innocent bystander in his apartment for God’s sake and we should let this go? I know that we are supposed to forgive, but the act needs to be in question. Many might forgive the person of Amber Guyger, but many darn sure will not forgive of forget the act of crimes that was committed against Botham Jean by allowing her to kill a black man in his own home. And to follow up, Botham Jean’s life did indeed matter.

And also, the struggle continues! This however, is not over. So, in this case don’t go burying the hatchet yet. And make sure that person and you come together and actually work out the details to move forward. If it doesn’t happen, there is no deal. However, if there is a deal and if there is a part to be sure, then make that decision.

Black History Month 2019: Under Review.

Well, it seems that Black History Month 2019 is about to be in the books. And apparently that this was one of the almost weird Black History Month Celebrations that has happened. Oh, yes it’s 93 years old. And it seems that many already forgotten that the occasion is not a racist celebration. And many had to be reminded that it does matter just like the various White stories we hear almost every day at work, school, or anywhere else. I said many times before that Black History is NOT American History. It may have some American elements in all, but it’s not only American. Black History is also celebrated in different world countries like Canada, the UK, France, Haiti, Jamaica, and others. It’s not just America alone!

So what were my moments that helped made Black History Month 2019 good?

Well, let’s start with the Oscars. No, I’m not going to go toe to toe and bash the Oscars in context. But I will say this: Regina King (aka Brenda Jenkins from 227) Black Panther walked with 3 Oscar W’s in the areas of Production Design won by Hannah Beachler who became the first African-American Female to win that category. Original Score of the movie won by
Ludwig Goransson (non-black), and also Best Costume Design by Ruth Carter. Oh, at long last after 30 years in the movie game: Spike Lee (YES THAT SPIKE LEE) after all this time, won an Oscar for directing as part of the win for the movie Black Klansman. This was Spike’s first Oscar Win and many thought that it was about time that he got one. Just to think, 30 years. Since the first movie that he directed: Do the Right Thing. And even though “Green Book” was highly undiscovered, the actor, however, Mahershala Ali became an Oscar Award Winner in getting the category’s Best Supporting Actor. Later on, Green Book won the best picture of the year and yes Octavia Spencer along with Mahershala were acknowledged.

For Music: I can name many: But Gary Clark, Jr won this one. If you have not picked up “This Land” at your Targets, Best Buys, Amazons, iTunes, or Google Play, your music collections in Black History Month was not saved! The album was supposed to be launched in March, but thankfully it was pushed back in February a week after his birthday on the 22nd. Yes, February 22nd was dubbed Washington’s Birthday, but I don’t think no one was thinking of that. Yes, this was the “This Land” album that had many folks buzzing since the video woke up all being shocked and surprised, with the black folks standing on the Confederate Flags. But it also dealt with the fact that racism is still an ugly feeling of hate on someone because of skin color. And many thought that Gary was separating the races in all. BULL CRAP! Many African-American Songwriters and musicians who were and mostly all Civil Rights Activists, Peace Activists and Social Justice Warriors all talked about how bad Racism/Discrimination is. So to those who were are want to be fans of Gary Clark, Jr. after he said the lyrics: “Run N***a Run, Run back where you come from”, you need to check yourself! He’s addressing the concern that many of you probably fear to talk about it at your group events full of black folks! And I’ll bet many of you, got Black Friends on speed dial! Don’t act surprised.

Here in Wisconsin: we had a debate about who should have been and chosen to be celebrated in the badger state’s Black History Highlights. The name Colin Kaepernick was on the minds of many. The Wisconsin GOP overwhelm didn’t add Colin Kaepernick’s name to the list of achievements due to his protesting of the NFL/National Anthem. Many called him being “too controversial.” And it gained national attention. However many in the Milwaukee area, where Colin was born decided to add his name to the City of Milwaukee’s Black History Month Segments in which many deemed well received as a good thing. Many also had agreed that other activists and civil rights leaders were deemed controversial, but many were praised for their work later on when they age or pass on. And yet, that was called out on being hypocritical. So yes, the City of Milwaukee accomplished a notion that the state’s GOP failed! And how DARE the Wisconsin GOP suggested to tell us whom to celebrate for our Month of Black History?! We don’t need NO ONE TELLING US whom to celebrate and highlight. No one! Also our new elected Lt. Governor Mandela Barnes was highlighted not only on the state level, but also in Milwaukee’s news outlets for Channel 6 and 12’s Black History Month’s Segments. Keep in mind, he’s the first African-American Lt. Governor in the state.

Another highlight of Black History Month in 2019 that I didn’t see coming: Solange Knowles, Beyoncé’s baby sister bought a social media website that many haven’t used in a while and also deleted years ago: BlackPlanet. You remember BlackPlanet where black folks and other folks logged in and getting all the info about who’s who? Way before Facebook and Instagram came in slightly after Myspace, and oh that’s where I met “Stacey Heskinson” and “Mary Lee” who were FAKES! Fake hookups! That is why I deleted my Black Planet Page is because of them and others like them who almost tricked me in giving money to them trying to get out of Nigeria. Yes, that’s the truth over 10 years ago. But since then, I stuck with those who know me and that lead me to Facebook, MySpace, Twitter, Instagram, and others that are not tricky. And I’m sure many who used BlackPlanet then had been tricked. So I’m not really looking forward to the reunion of the BlackPlanet party, but I will say that yes if any black folks still want to go to Black Planet and revive the username and password, be my guest. But happy that Solange bought the company though.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GFbUqk3HSvE

Sidenote: even my denomination of the United Methodist Church had several Black History References from quizzes to Black Harry. Yes, black folks played a role in this and the tradition continues to this day as well as other denominations, non-denominational etc. Plus, several African-American Teachers decorated their classroom doors in honor of their Colleges, Fraternities, Sororities, famous figure in history, and many more! And the idea came from Facebook!

Back in Milwaukee, during the first week of Black History Month: MPS had a week of meetings, events, social plays and others in regarding “National Black Lives Matter Week”. And with the week in summary, also regarding the activities, that an idea to incorporate Black History in the school subjects everyday that many of the kids and teens can learn about other black leaders and legends other than Martin Luther King, Jr. other than Malcolm X, other than Rosa Parks, and etc. I don’t know about the other school districts, but WAKE UP! Black History is not just an “American Fad”. It’s for all to learn from. And on a side note, of course, we need to learn about our subject all the time every day like apps and tablets.  Also, one of our Milwaukee Municipal Judges Derek Mosley takes the time every February to summarize stories of Black History to social media. He’s been doing this for 10 years, and yet the summaries are still valuable for all to understand!  Follow him on Facebook!

However: I need to say something that I’ve been seeing a whole lot of #BlackHistory365 or #BlackHistoryEveryday or I’m black every month comments. I think we’re kind of missing the boat here. OF COURSE! We are supposed to summarize our culture everyday. But black folks, hear me out when I tell you at times, we DON’T hardly acknowledge our people EVERYDAY! We don’t do it like the other ethnics do all the time, everyday. The only time we acknowledge I think around celebrating our people is really around family reunions, weddings, anniversaries, the club, and yet also: funerals. But as far as more of everyday when many are not doing problems we skip over that for some reason. We go to work, school, or worrying about that thing in the Mall or stores! There was a comment asked about how can we celebrate our folks everyday and believe it or not, it was on the Stephen’s Spot Twitter Page. The answer was more like an opinionated thought of starting out basic and continue to build on the knowledge every time. Learn from those that have extended knowledge and to build your learning in summary. Of course, it’s hard to do, but ask this: If we can be so knowledgeable about Technology or the latest game, why can’t we be so knowledgeable about our history in the same context? Not just talking the talk, BUT ACTUALLY, WALK THE FREAKING WALK! Man, we can hashtag all we want, but that hashtagging better be in action! Which means also that you better not charge up your Black History in March or later months, but left it lying lifeless in February. That’s a foul ball.

And of course in Black History Month 2019, there were several problems of turmoil: Jussie Smollett of Empire was allegedly attacked in Chicago all to do with some thugs wearing MAGA attire, but apparently, it was beginning to be a rumored attack. And his character on the show is not going to happen in the last three episodes in this matter. And yes also: R. Kelly turned himself in after all this time being in the Hot Seat of this Child Molestation charges that many dodged for so long. And also recently during the Michael Cohen testimonies, the 45 administration brought in Lynne Patton whom she feels that 45 is not a racist. Well, welcome to tokenism! Have a seat next to Candace Owens about what she said about Hitler being a nice guy. STOP IT! Hitler was not a cool dude so let’s not be so petty or tap dance like a fool. And speaking of that in stupidity: the issue of Blackface reared its ugly head. Don’t get me started!

So how do we end Black History Month of 2019? We should end by stating that we always should acknowledge our ancestors that brought us knowledge and wisdom to carry forward. It’s been 2 years since my father’s passing, but I’m holding to the torch. It’s a hard job to grasp but I’m trying. Also, we need to be thankful that a month like this that started with Dr. Carter G. Woodson in 1926 that got us talking about us. Keep in mind, NO ONE was talking about us! Until Dr. Woodson heard the Black Civil War Veterans talking in the coal mines in the South. And we also end the #BHM2019 Celebrations by the ongoing efforts to give our black kids a voice. A black voice to tell them that many might not acknowledge them of their talents and being black, but still, prove them WRONG! I want to acknowledge our young black kings and queens that your time is coming. Be ready and willing.

CALLOUT: And a lesson to all of us that Black History Month SHOULD NOT BE underestimated by anyone! Even if you’re black yourself!

Our proud historical events and ideas are still out in interests. And yet many of us have to begin new chapters to extend the stories. Black History Month 2019 may be already in the archives, but yet the summaries and extended plays still go on all the time. Or if you’re like yours truly: you can do BOTH by celebrate Black History Month and summarize Black History every time. No, it’s not a mistake. Keep it in the middle!

And that alone needs no permission!

#BLACKHISTORYMONTH4LIFE!
And yet, the struggle continues.

My Take: Yes! Aretha Franklin got her respect. Like the song title. But what was learned though?

If anything today while at work and the classroom taught us today, it’s about one word: Respect.

We all just witnessed the homegoing, or funeral of Aretha Franklin. Whom we all know died 2 weeks ago in her home in Detroit at 76 years old. And to think that she died on the same day decade wise as Elvis Presley, whom passed at 42 in 1977. The fact of the matter is, Aretha you really can’t say too much about her. And yes she had her “rival” moments selling the shade of those wanting to get into her personal realm. But all in all, respect was the keyword.

Like many artists before her, she was raised in the church. Her father was a minister in the south before migrating north to Detroit. And yes, we all know about Detroit and the Motown Sound which also escalated during the Civil Rights Movement. Like many others in the famous side, she was honorary pledged into the black sorority of Delta Sigma Theta, and I’m sure many that heard about this sorority, like assuming. If not check with your friends whom are apart of the Divine 9. Plus the Deltas had conducted a “Omega Omega Service” for their departed honorary Sorority Sister. Now if anyone has been to a funeral in which a Fraternity or Sorority member is funeralized, they usually have a moment of reflection and towards the end, they declare that the deceased member is apart of the “Omega Chapter.” Omega is the end, by the way. Many of us will have an Omega Service in a somewhat fashion in our departure.

Now, we know the hits from Respect, Pink Cadillac, A Rose is Still A Rose, Rock Steady, and even many Gospel hits. Winning numerous awards, even acted movies like The Blues Brothers. For her live performances, we can talk about the Grammys, President Obama’s Inauguration Day ceremonies, and such. But I also saw her doing renditions of America the Beautiful on which wrestling program you asked? WrestleMania. Both at the Pontiac Silverdome and also Ford Field. Now I want to say something here. When I looked at the WWE Facebook Page about her, many of the “WWE Universe” had no idea who she was. Like really. For all of you wrestling fans who don’t know Aretha, does the WWE Network still work? I’m just asking! Do you still google in all? Hello!! Do any of your relatives or black folks you know have any Aretha Franklin songs or albums in the house? You better study! You better ask questions! And that goes for those whom are under 21 and into trap music.

Fast forward to the long nine hour funeral. Oh yeah it was long! If many folks complain about long church services, I’m sure you probably complained about the long preaching, long songs, testimony off script, the eulogy didn’t match up well enough, the dozen of families, dignitaries, special guests, folks protesting about (oops) Donald Trump, and oh it wasn’t just a Homegoing, it was also a time for action of what’s going on in the country. Oh yeah have we heard this before when Coretta Scott King was remembered? And George W. Bush was hammered! Don’t act like we know!

Some of the positive highlights of the service:

Rev. Al Sharpton and his comments about mistakenly spelling respect and telling folks that Donald Trump should use the word describing Aretha.

 

Rev. Jesse Jackson and the part of him commenting about famous deaths and minimal voting lines.

 

Michael Eric Dyson and that knowledge. Plus the shade on 45:

 

These to me were the highlights of the funeral as Aretha was remembered. And yet, even many questioned it. But it had to be said at this funeral because of what the country is going through despite the commentary of 45. You say, what was all the Civil Rights and Activism about? This is supposed to be a funeral! Um….it has happened before. Reference AGAIN Coretta Scott King’s Funeral from 2005 and there was a lot of talk about George W. Bush’s blunders of Weapons of Mass Destruction, and many others. Go back and read it.

Now, music-wise: I’m not going to say, Ariana Grande. But I will say, Jennifer Holiday, Jennifer Hudson, Fantasia, and yes Stevie Wonder. All to me were the highlighted singers that cameout to perform.

Plus we cannot forget, Cicely Tyson who was the oldest in the room giving the knowledge and truth as she always does. When Cicely Tyson talks, we all better listen.

Of course the funeral couldn’t be without the commentary from her family mainly her Grandchildren whom were raised well. And yes there was support from the men, whom looked after Aretha to check on her to make sure that things were well kept and taken care of. Oh, by the way the men were black looking out for the Queen!

Now let me shift back to Ariana: And that touching thing….let me say this: the bishop who of course apologized to Ariana had his hand according to the live footage, was near Ariana’s breast. And many called foul that he shouldn’t have his hand near there, and of course many of the former church crowd cried foul of the hand as well. And if you are of the “former church crowd” that pisses on the church so much, why does this concern you? And I’ll agree sharply that the way it was: totally disrespectful. But as a bigger man, the bishop did infact apologize. He was in the wrong. And of course that when things go wrong on live TV, they go wrong! So yet he did apologize. However, many were calling for his head to be charged or sued of the “illegal touch”. Dude, he hasn’t been charged! There was no indication about him going to jail, or facing court. Until I see any DOCUMENTED PROOF about him being charged, and found guilty, and having his title and leadership stripped, and being banned from his church in all, then you can kick his butt! I haven’t heard the remarks of Ariana. She hasn’t said anything. Not one sentence. Nothing! Come on #MeToo movement! Where are you? And keep in mind that the jury is still out. And here’s the thing: many of us don’t know the Bishop Charles Ellis III well. We don’t! We don’t know him, his education, his family, his finances, and justly we don’t know if he went through a background check.

So if you call these Pastors “janky” after one tiny mistake, that is out of bounds. We don’t know him! Even you non/former church goers should know better! And no I’m not defending him.

And as far as the minister who did the eulogy Rev. Jasper Williams. I will agree that eulogies should be about the deceased. All the way. But if you eulogize or give your final analysis of a person that is not matching, it’s not cutting it. This reminds me of my cousin’s funeral from 2002 in Milwaukee that the minister gave the eulogy but his comments was about George W. Bush and the war in Iraq. But it was not about my departed cousin, who was killed at 21 years old in late July of that year! So I get where the Franklin Family is coming from on that part. On the other hand, the minister’s sermon was like the talk of the town. Folks still slamming it. Then there was a news conference about what was said. This is stupid! Was it a slow news day? Of all the things popped up on Social Media, as well as news outlets, you have this man, this minister had to further explain his eulogy of Aretha Franklin to a worldwide audience after mostly it was sharply criticized. You got to be kidding me! In the words of my Dad. Again, like the bishop, we don’t know him nor done a background check! Many folks already said that he told the truth. In regarding black households not up to par of what was previously. And many houses need to turn back into homes. And to think, partially many kind of missed the mark completely.

I hate to say it but many of you whom are sensitive at darn near everything, and I know many of you are in school and college: Take a class on Public Speaking! Please take that course! Not only take the course, but also learn about “tone”. I’m not talking about music tones, I’m talking about tones in the speech. “Tone” is related to attitude. Um….hello! Learned that back in high school in the 1990s, actually my Senior Year called American Authors. And one of the items for discussion was: “On the Pulse of the Morning” by Maya Angelou from 1993. It’s 25 years old now, but still it’s one of the best toned poems out of the 20th Century. Oh, it was Bill Clinton’s Inauguration.

What will go from here? Besides Aretha’s music. Her videos from the Blues Brothers singing Think. Us Milwaukeeans remember her performing at Summerfest 3 times and the last time I saw Aretha perform was at Summerfest in 1996. And the Milwaukee Symphony Orchestra was on stage at the time, during the 4th of July holiday. I kind of shy away from that, but now after her passing, I was glad to see her perform but also glad to see a piece of black history. A piece of Civil Rights History. She was woke before woke was a thing. Not only she was woke and conscious, she acted on it. Not just saying some one liners to get all engaged. Like many before, its hard to pickup the torch and carry it forward for another era. But I think that we know that Aretha’s lessons of her life and entertainment will long be remembered and really can’t say nothing bad about it. We can’t. Now some may argue about her not having a will or not being married. But the fact of the matter is, her mark was felt by many those who packed that church on that August 31st morning, and mostly stayed for 9 hours. And the broadcasts like BET or Bounce TV having to stay on for the 9 hour duration. Plus, even having the now former TV One host Roland Martin filling us in with the summaries via Twitter. Look: I need to say something. When I was looking at my Twitter feeds, there were dumb questions on why Roland was tweeting during a funeral. I think we all know that he is a journalist. And part of what he did, Aretha liked! There were times folks called me out for Tweeting in Church, but guess what it is part of my communications ministry. It’s part of my job! So to those whom say that, I dare you to try it. See how it feels. Oops, I’m sorry, many of you are sensitive! Just let us do our jobs and you can do yours. If you have one.

Overall: between the 4 dress changes, performances, Pink Cadillac Cars, poems, proclamations in all, it was really about one word: R-E-S-P-E-C-T!

 

Scratching my head all this time: The Midsummer almost back to school version.

Long time ago, I usually say that “August Really Sucks.” I think I say this because that’s when you get the feeling of school is coming. The 2018-19 year is about to start up. BUT….with all what’s going on with Trump messing up the game, a black Milwaukee Radio Station Segment gone, more of the Becky’s of calling the cops being crazy, Harley-Davidson turning 115 in all: I’m scratching my head again.

Did we really need the Hallmark Christmas Movies in July?

Schools of America: Are you ready for the classrooms?

For all the fans of “Shut up and dribble”: Do you hate LeBron James now? After he opened a school in the area Akron, Ohio?! Hmmmm……what about it?!

Are many folks ready for Roland Martin’s new show on September 4th? Spoiler Alert, you need the internet!

Wisconsinites: August 14th is coming up real fast. So you made your marks yet? Who’s betting on Mahlon Mitchell to go all the way?

For the listeners and fans of WNOV: what happens now after “The Forum?”

Milwaukee: Black Arts Fest MKE debuts. Will it be successful and the anticipation be in the staple of the City of Festivals? Just to think that 5 years ago, African World Festival happened. And unceremoniously: for the last time.

Is the Wisconsin State Fair still hyped?

Is the NFL Preseason still good to watch? And justly, not many will not watch the NFL in regarding Colin Kaepernick.

This fall: it will be my 25 years that I backed Bucky. When they got hot and went to the Rose Bowl in 1994 and won the game. (Rose Bowl with Barry Alvarez winning it all) But my question is, can these Football Badgers of now in 2018-19, go for the big one?

What about the new name for the New Bucks Arena? Now known as the Fiserv.Forum?

Alright this needs to be asked: what was the gall purpose of those Black Pastors IN the 45 Wacky White House meeting up with Trump? And what was Milwaukee Bishop Darrell Hines doing there?!!! Was it really about Prison Reform?! And speaking of that, Darrell Scott said that Trump is the “The most blackest president ever.” EXCUSE ME?!!! And having the balls to diss Obama?

Milwaukee: we will have some guests coming to town in later weeks for Harley-Davidson’s 115th Anniversary. Yeah, our every 5 year anniversary is coming yet again. But the question is: will EVERY neighborhood and community in Milwaukee be ready for this? And also will the Black Community be represented? You know it was almost left out IF the Iron Elite Black Biker Jam had not happened! As well as also the MLK Jr Drive Area had not happened either!

For you Bird Scooters Fans: yes you know that already that the City of Milwaukee had began to declare the Bird Scooters to be illegal to operate. In parts of the operating of the scooters didn’t comply under the State of Wisconsin’s DOT Laws. Yes, the city had to comply with the rules in terms of the state. Chapter 340 Paragraph 35. It’s clearly states that. For you Bird Scooter fans: didn’t you read that part before leaving the scooters around? Just asking!

For the Alumni on ALL levels: you ready to donate back to the old high schools and colleges?

For the teachers: you ready to get back to the grading papers?

For the Administrators: what about that idea of facilitating new ideas in the schools and colleges?

For you Parents: will you be willing to visit the schools not just because of the games or graduation?!

Will many folks NOT be jealous about taking pics of their kids going to school on the first day on Social Media?

When it comes to the black churches, why are they are REALLY dying out? What is the REAL Reason?

Jerry Springer has been on TV nearly 28 years. And how?

It’s funny though, we see and read about all those comments about the “misfits” can’t mount to nothing. Hmmmm……what if they did? And provide that evidence?

When will the Wisconsin State Fair have an African-American Career Expo? It had it once before!

Milwaukeeans: Century City I area will be getting it’s first tenant: GoodCity Brewing. It’s not Amazon, but can it generate jobs for the area?

Class of 2019: are you ready to get this semester over with? Especially if you are a Senior!

For all those going into school/colleges for the first time, you must be nervous. We all been there. But will you make sure that your first year is a learning experience?

For all those who are still in it at school/college: can you maintain the pressure?

Final question here: How will all of our leaders continue to adapt the ways of the 45 moronic orange head, while many of us have to go through crap everyday dealing with all the mess that most of the GOP do spew out? In other words, HOW LONG?!